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The M3 Model - The Easiest Way To Pick-up

The M3 Model is the breakdown and analysis of the COURTSHIP phase of any male-female interaction: meaning, the period of time leading into any full-fledged sexual relationship (be it a fwb situation or a gf/bf thing).

The general consensus is that from the time of meeting a girl to the time of closing a girl (depending on your definition--for adults it's typically sex, while for younger teens it's generally just making out/kissing. For older teens it's generally somewhere in between depending on age & experience), to do all 9 steps it should take anywhere from 7-11 hours of total face-time w/ the girl if you are running everything correctly. This does NOT have to occur all at once. It can be a few minutes here, a few hours there, etc.

But the point is this: it should not take months & months of build-up. Rather, if it's going to happen at all, typically it will happen within the first few handful of dates. More specific time breakdowns will be added later for each phase.
  { ATTRACT -> COMFORT -> SEDUCTION } ---> Relationship

The attraction phase is divided into :
A1 - Approach
A2 - Attracting the HB or Female-to-male Interest
A3 - Male-to-Female Interest

The comfort phase is divided into :
C1 - Building rapport
C2 - Building emotional connection and physical connection
C3 - Intimacy

The seduction phase is divided into :
S1 - Foreplay
S2 - LMR
S3 - Sex

Step1: Approach

This is the first part of the courtship process. If you are seducing a HB, you must focus on creating mutual attraction at first.

A1: Opening

The goals of the A1 phase are approached a group, use opener to start a conversation with the set. Here are a few rules in this phase:

1. Peacocking: Peacocking is the use of flashy or outlandish clothing to attract women.

2. The 3 second rule: You must immediately approach the target or in a set within 3 seconds when entering the venue.

3. Neg: an ambiguous statement or seemingly accidental insult wrapped in the package of a complement, with the intent of actively demonstrating to the hot babe lack of interest in her.

4. Opener or opinion opener: Canned or environmental materials used to start a conversation with the HB or the set. Here are some field-tested opener:
    Jealous Girlfriend
    80's Dogs
    Dental Floss
    Cologne Opener

5. False Time Constraint: "I can only stay for a minute,"

6. Body Language:
    Using Body rocking to create the impression that you are about to leave

A2: Female-to-Male Interest

In A2 phase, you should create attraction. Some pickup routine in this stage like:

1. DHV: Demonstrate high value, using gimmick, magic, psychic routine, humor ......

2. Storytelling

3. AMOGing

4. Coky&Funny

5. Push-and-Pull

A3: Male-to-Female Interest

In this phase, The hot babe must be baited into demonstrating her own value. By this way, you're just attracted to her by her personality or charm, other than her looks. You must have her earn you interest and be interested in something besides her looks. Here are some routines

1. Hoop theory

2. Bait - Hook - Reel - Release

3. Qualify her:
    Why to qualify her
    Some Qualifying Routines
    Communicating that you are Qualifying them

4. Having Standards

5. .....

Step2: Comfort

The ultimate goal of comfort is both of you can relax together, sharing intimacies without worrying. Before you build comfort, isolate the target from her friends possible, whether physically or verbally. You can suggest introduce her a friend over there.

C1 - building rapport

In C1 phase of the Mystery Method M3 Model, you should focus on create a sense of rapport with each other. According to the pickup artists, "the game is played in rapport." Here are some awesome articles related to build rapport.

1. Style's Eliciting Values Routines

2. The Question Game: 6 New Questions To Build Rapport

3. Using The Lying Game to build rapport

C2 - building a emotional and physical connection

In this step, you must create a emotional connection with the target at first. Here are some routines to create a emotional connection:

1. Esp Routine

2. The Cube

3. Three Smiles Routine

4. The question Game

And then you can escalate to physical connection. Here are some routines:

1. Evolution Phase Shift Routine

2. Kino-tests

C3- Intimacy

The C3 location is at a sex location. So the kissing turns into heave making-out and etc, and you guys are alone, it's time to chose the game.

Step3: Seduction

S1 - Foreplay

Make sure you have build enough comfort before you get the HB into a sex location. And then, Okay, so do your things

S2 - LMR

LMR stands for Last Minute Resistance. Once you have it, she may say "we should stop ..." or "We better be careful about where this is going". Some general tactics for LMR have always been:

1. Using Freeze-Out to Overcome LMR

2. Busting Last Minute Resistance using Style's famous story

3. Ignore it and keep going. (-you're right, we should stop)

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