This may come as a surprise to you, but seducing women starts with your
initial conversation. Instead of thinking about how to seduce a woman
when you're alone, you should work hard to seduce her from the moment
you meet her. That means you have to be a seducer the moment you start
talking to a woman.
1. Use a opener to initiate a conversation-
The main purpose of the opener is to get her attention and raise her
interest in a chat. It is not a time to hit on her. It is not a time to
introduce yourself. It is not a time to compliment her or spend money on
In all the kinds of opener, asking a woman's opinion on something is the
BEST way to start talking to a woman. If you can make it something
that'll attract her interest, you'll set yourself up for the seduction
that will happen later
Here are an example of opinion opener:
PUA: Hey guys, I need to get your opinion on something. It's very
important, and we need a woman's perspective. It's a matter of life and
death.. My friend and I were having a debate and your answer could
completely change my entire life....
Do you brush before floss or floss before brush? No one knows...
2. Neg her:
An attractive girl is hit on and complimented all day long. This builds
her confidence. When she doesn't get complimented, she becomes
interested. This makes you interesting.
PUA: What do you do?
Gal: Oh, I'm a model.
PUA: Oh yeah, your hair looks kinda nice or Oh, like a hand model or
3. Talk about having sex-
Bringing sexual innuendos into a conversation is a gateway towards
actually doing it. What you do is bring up sex in a conversation in a
GENERAL manner. For instance, you could talk about the women on "Girls
Gone Wild" and ask her opinion about it. As the conversation progresses,
you can then ask if she's ever done something like that or if she's been
If you can pull this question off while being y/funny, you'll have
successfully brought sex into a conversation without being creepy and
Now once sex is being openly discussed you can start working on your
physical contact and then take things to the next level.
4. Push And Pull
Push/Pull is the crème de la crème of attraction tools. Master Push/Pull
and you'll leave women no choice but to feel attraction toward
you...even if they're repulsed by your physical appearance.
Here's an example of Push/Pull I've used probably over a thousand
(1)You are the coolest girls I've talked to…in the last 15 minutes!
(2)You're either really smart…or a total bimbo!
5. Story Telling
Story Telling A good story should not be to entertain or show that you
are a cool guy. A good story is used to attract. Cut all the unnecessary
facts from a story and just talk about how you react to the situation.
Remember to cut all details down to the bare essentials that make your
story logical and then add liberal amounts of your reaction and how you
feel about the events. That humanizing will make people into you and not
your material. Better yet. Just get into the space where you are talking
about your feelings and reactions and you will not have to preplan a
canned story it will just flow out along with all the rest.
1. Strauss, Neil, The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup
2. Mystery (2004), The Venusian Arts Handbook, Mystery Method
3. Frances Whiting, “Top 10 Ways to seduce” The Sunday Mail, November