Throw out your Funny Stories (2)

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• You get a good laugh.

Laughter feels good. It is also a thing where she is vibing you. Bouncing her good feeling off you.

• You take up the conversation with confidence saying "Make shoulder room for me here, I am going to tell you this and I don't care what you think".

• You are displaying your personality and sense of humour.

• It appears as regular conversation, but it is just outrageously good.

• People feel like they could just sit at your feet and listen to you all night.

You are therefore demonstrating authority and planting yourself easily into the situation rather than jumping around in high-energy nervousness.

• Guys in the group will accept you because you are a cool guy.

• It displays your ease in the world and how you have come into equilibrium with it.

Your presence in the room changes the dynamics of the room until you and the room reach an equilibrium. This natural centredness and self-confidence makes you attractive.

• Your bits hold together well and you are not jumping around all the time, there seems to be a theme that holds your conversation together, and you are driving the interaction in the group / being the facilitator / chairperson for their conversation.

Their night is enriched by the structure you are placing on their unstructured conversation where they are not sure about what they will talk about next.

• You can LOWER the energy of the exchange to get them over their excitability ... I could go on, but I was brainstorming in the above points and I think I have just hit the point with that last one.