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• You get a good laugh.

Laughter feels good. It is also a thing where she is vibing you. Bouncing her good feeling off you.

• You take up the conversation with confidence saying "Make shoulder room for me here, I am going to tell you this and I don't care what you think".

• You are displaying your personality and sense of humour.

• It appears as regular conversation, but it is just outrageously good.

• People feel like they could just sit at your feet and listen to you all night.

You are therefore demonstrating authority and planting yourself easily into the situation rather than jumping around in high-energy nervousness.

• Guys in the group will accept you because you are a cool guy.

• It displays your ease in the world and how you have come into equilibrium with it.

Your presence in the room changes the dynamics of the room until you and the room reach an equilibrium. This natural centredness and self-confidence makes you attractive.

• Your bits hold together well and you are not jumping around all the time, there seems to be a theme that holds your conversation together, and you are driving the interaction in the group / being the facilitator / chairperson for their conversation.

Their night is enriched by the structure you are placing on their unstructured conversation where they are not sure about what they will talk about next.

• You can LOWER the energy of the exchange to get them over their excitability ... I could go on, but I was brainstorming in the above points and I think I have just hit the point with that last one.

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<Playboy L.A.> wrote in message
> Yep - I relate totally. When I realized that playing solid
> game is far superior than going for the ONS sporting
> game - I relaxed A LOT. In fact, if it takes longer - no
> problem then too. My thought is that when two people
> come together, there is a seduction map that slowly
> reveals itself - vis-a-vis my personality and hers...so, it
> is simply about paying attention to the map, not doing
> anything wrong (seek validation usually), and escalate
> at the right moments.
I agree, and further, what I have taken to doing is forcing the 7 or so
hours on her. Like even if she might be ready to go on the first night, you
leave 15 minutes before closing time with numbers exchanged and solid plans.
Use your day2.
Here is the way it is: you know how when you sleep with a girl on the night
you met her, you consider her a bit of a slut? Like I mean you really dont
flatter yourself that much to think that you are the only guy out there that
could do this, right? I mean she was a little too easy. If you want to have
a girl around for a while in your life you want her to be a bit of a
challenge at the beginning, right? Well, girls believe the same thing. They
want to demonstrate that they are choosy, and that they have chosen you.
That is why girls will sometimes force a "I am not ready yet" deal on a guy.
Well, if you slow the thing down you do two things:
a) you start off the relationship on the right foot so that she can feel
like she acted well in the beginning of the relationship and it looks more
"square" or like a romance and dreams that she might have in her head as
opposed to a sexually charged pick-up with a attractive anonymous stranger.
b) it gets you dictating the speed and in control. If you leave on the first
night, you can even whisper in her ear "I know I can have you but I am
letting you off the hook tonight. We’ll see each other again", and now it is
you controlling the agenda. Believe me, she will be thinking about you when
she goes to bed.


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