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Very Solid Night: Pickup Sexy Girls at a Cool Club
But my friend was really shy, and rarely talks to people. The way you're acting isn't cool, and I'm not cool with it. You guys really threw him I think, and I wanted to show him that if you just chill and joke around, that everyone has a good side to them as well. I don't think bad of you guys at all." I did this to give them an image to live up to, and to break the cycle of negativity. This is literally after around 7 or 8 minutes straight of them telling me to leave. Then I talked to them a bit about social dynamics, and immediately once their shield is down and they like me -> BOOM I re-game them. Bang bang bang with my material, and now I have full attraction from all three.
A key note with this: If your friend goes in with "Hey guys, I need an opinion", you *cannot* go in with this again. You can't say "Hey guys... Hey guys.. Hey guys..." You have to keep saying different forms of sentences so that their brain doesn't subconsciously key into the pattern. Like you can't keep trying to tell stories, because their brain recognizes the pattern and rejects it. You can't keep going for opinions. You can't keep breaking rapport. You can't keep trying for rapport. You alternate between all of these things, and sooner or later you trigger an autopilot response that is favorable which disarms the bitch shield and all of a sudden you're in the set as per usual. In this case, I had way more attraction, because the fact that I stayed there and put them in their place authoritatively was a huge demonstration of my status.
After about 5 minutes I ejected out of fear and being so shaken. It was actually very jarring for me to go through this, and my brain was so fried from it that I couldn't take the social pressure. I felt like "Fuck, I got attraction from these really anal girls, and I want to leave before they start disparaging me again", even though they wouldn't have at all. This was a great learning experience, because it was the biggest "turnaround" I've ever done. These girls were extremely peeved, and I still turned it around. I really feel like I can turnaround any set at this point, because I'm too quick. But just like a newbie getting a set open and ejecting right after, fully satisfied that he'd accomplished something, I ejected without any good reason. Still, I was pleased with what I'd done, but next time I'll have the familiarity with the emotions that I felt and will act more logically.
-I hung out with the "World's Greatest Natural" guy from thundercatseductionlair.com - the guy Thundercat always talks about. He seemed like a cool guy with natural game. He apparently almost laid a girl back at their hotel, as my buddy Merovigian (from the Lounge) who was coincidentally at the same venue later told me. Merovingian is an awesome trustworthy guy who is one of the coolest guys I've met in the scene, and I did a set with him where I was starting to field test Toecutter's Palmreading routine. It's a money routine, but I am so incongruent with it, that I had to make a joke out of it to use it properly because I'm way too geared on the cocky style. This will really help my game, because Toecutter's routine is awesome and has such good content, so I can use it to force myself to really get better connections with girls. Also he has all this kickass C&F material surrounding it, that I'm dying to try out. I was about to enter a set with the natural guy, but then this cute girl with fake breasts came up to me and we were making out within about 2 minutes. It was weird, and her friends were all cool with it like telling me that they liked me and wanted me to hang out with all of them. I made out with her for like 20 minutes while her friends waited for her at the door. I will be interested to see why they were so calm about it, and want to see if she flakes. It was perhaps the way I did it, as I asked permission from them to see if I could, and said repeatedly "I don't want to separate you guys in the club. I have a little sister and I don't like her on her own at night in these places when she should be having fun hanging out with her friends". Anyway, who knows. We'll see what happens.
I was at the venue very early, so got in many hours of game. As a result, this was one of those nights that was so eventful I can't remember most of it. It was great to get out really get to work. I'll put up a billboard tommorow that has MYS VS TD: W, L, T and check the T column with two ties so far. We'll do it next week, to keep ourselves competitive and pushing our best game.
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