Whatever happened to the 70s/80s pick up artist, from a time when women weren't EVEN AS LOOSE sexually as they are today? Guy who could go out and get a woman same day or night and fuck her? Am I totally alone out there in the ability to do this? Women now though in the 2000s, easy pickens if you play your shit right.
Lets get back to fundamentals right here.
A to Z, THIS is what gets you laid. No, my name wasn't dropped recently by a magazine. No, I am not THE founder of things. Anyone who can read the lay reports, anyone I've helped in chat or email knows, GWM, or Gunwitch means fuckin LAYS, not all the bullshit. SO listen up!
I'll lay out my basic strategy here today.
Lets get started.
Women want to have sex with men, women are not from Venus, we are not from Mars, there is no need to see this as a battle, it is mutually shared sexual gratification. Women love sex, one must realize this.
Field work generates effective techniques and tactics, not vice versa.
Ejecting from a pick up unless it's a DONE deal is illogical. Better to stand there with nothing particular to say and let her talk or walk, than to leave and never know.
If I relax they will relax, if I am sexual they will be sexual. First basis of getting anyone to do anything is the walks like a duck acts like a duck must be a duck principle. If you pigeonhole yourself as entertaining guy, or funny guy, or witty guy in her mind you are shorting yourself from pigeonholing yourself as "lover man". Feel it, show it, but don't say it, and she will place you in the category of a lover.
What I do.
I go out in the daytime.
Go in a department store or mall. Stay out of clubs; learn to not have to be drunk/ bottle of courage to approach women. Clubs are a tougher environment because its almost all visually based, hence you need to be 7'5'' or an ass model to stand out. Go to a department store or mall.
See my target. I see MY (not bimbo ideal, but what I want to fuck) 10, in one spot, not moving and by her self. No need to add chaos to the situation by approaching a moving target or target with a friend who will set off her "what will SHE think" conditioning against sex with strangers.
RELAX.
Feel a sexual state/get horny for her; start to go 2-3 on 1-10 scale
Go stand near her and look at something.
Watch for her to look at me.
Look back at her in the eyes and say hello, hi, what's up, depending on the chick's age and look.
See I don't BURST IN. I hover close by make it more natural and less threatening. This isn't like a club where drunks just trample each other and slobber on ugly women.
I relax and ask her a couple questions until she seems to get comfortable.
"You from around this area?"
"Never seen you around here before."
"Oh really where ya from?"
"By the way I'm rob."
"You are?"
At her first smile back at me, first laugh at something that isn't funny I begin to walk like someone she knows, talk like someone she knows, and be seen as someone she knows, not a stranger.
I start talking about the environment or music movies TV Celebs etc. Get way more relaxed. People KNOW the Simpson's, they KNOW Chandler and Rachel and Ross, they KNOW Buffy and Giles and spike. I don't ask her "do you watch xxxxxx" I ask her "what do you watch on TV?" she says something I don't know and cant assume a rapport based on talking about?
