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How to really PU
WARNING: ALL CONTENT OF THIS POST IS ACTUALLY FIELD TESTED AND SHOWN TO BE EMPIRICALLY VERIFIABLE.
OK, since I'm half asleep at 5am and in a rambly mood, you guys are getting privileged to the REAL way to PU.
1) You are not needy/desperate/lame.
2) She said something WORTH you staying.
Have you ever won some stupid contest for a cracker-jack prize or some shit, and went and claimed it??? Even though if you had already owned it, and forgot it at the store, you never would have gone to even pick it up cause its so LAME.. but still, since you WON it, you go pick it up??? That's what this is like.
Give her the impression that you're only staying to talk because SHE said something that interested you to stay. Again, do this by ONLY turning once she is turning FIRST.
The only exception is you can do little tests, like turning quickly towards her, to SEE if she'll BITE and turn herself.
MAKE HER TRY TO GET RAPPORT WITH YOU.
Then, after you get that, THEN start mirroring her and all that shit. Mirroring is FANTASTIC for getting deep rapport.
Finally, when you phase shift, use very sexual body language.
The sequence in my "gear shifting" post was:
-C&F until she tries to get rapport with "what's your name" or some variant
So you turn away and make her TRY to get rapport with this cocky/funny guy, then you turn towards her normally, THEN when you phase shift you do the sexy body language (EC, triangular gazing, sidelong glances, lip licking, hair sifting, open palms, soft tonality, etc etc)
You want her SHIT TESTING you, so that you can use shit testing evasive measures to prove yourself to her, and get her TURNED ON.That's one of the main BENEFITS to doing QUALIFYING right off the gate. You're even better using the KISS GAME at the VERY START of the PU, just to set that FRAME.
If you have AI (approach invitation), then it is OK to use more direct body language, or even the "hi" opener.
On warm approaches, feel free to go into phase shift body language right away, if she's comfortable with it.
For non-club PU (my absolute expertise, although my club game is getting kinda tight non-club is still way better), experiment with PROJECTING VALUE in your opener. That means that what you do/say projects VALUE to the chick, right off the opener. Some things of value to chicks are:
-frame-setting (sets challenges right off the opener)
FUN: "Hey, check out that kid on Santa's lap.. wow, remember when x,y,z childhood memories??"
IMAGINATIVE: "whoa, that is a NICE aquarium.. look at that.. OMG, we should totally hit up the bio-chem department, and get shrunk down like BARBIE AND KEN.. then we could swim around behind that coral right there.. see that.. and totally go on like an underwater adventure like in the Little Mermaid.. don't get any ideas though, Ken dolls do not come FULLY EQUIPPED" (this reverses the frame at the end as well as an added benefit)
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