The Fucked-up Party Girls

Style: This is where SS fails for me: the party girl, the fucked-up HB who just wants to have a good time and will end up in bed with the guy who shows her one.

Formhandle: Great - so show here a good time and end up in bed with her.

James Dickson: I find myself in this same exact situation.  As a result, I've decided to stay away from raves, parties, stuff like that and work on picking up girls my own way.  I just don't seem to have the skills to make myself "fun" in that situation.

Sasha: LOL, just that part tells me you already know the solution. If something doesn't work, try something else. If SS doesn't work for you to Pu the "party" chicks, try something else, such as pure GM or Mr.Smooth. IMO, Bandler talks about the use of word "just" as an indicator of a limiting belief. Some of the party girls are not there to "just have a good time." Even if they are willing to have a good time, what do you consider a "regular" PU you always do, a borring time.

She doesn't want to sneak off in some corner with a PUA who will talk the sweet words that will open her legs.

Formhandle: Then don't sneak off in some corner with her.

Sasha: LOL, how do you know that, are ALL the girls like that. You still have to talk to girl to PU them, unless you are death/mute. (Sasha bows down to BLscorpz, you got skillz man) Maybe you need to talk to them in a different state...hmmm

She wants to be grabbed and taken on an adventure that escalates the fun and mayhem.

Formhandle: So grab her and take her on an adventure that escalates the fun and mayhem.  What's the problem?

TheFairlyBigOne: Well, that's easier said than done! What would "taking her on an adventure" be ? First you need to find out what she considers an adventure, then you need to have something prepared along those lines... that requires plenty of work and luck.

Most of the time, I fail the adventure thing.

The only times I have NOT failed the adventure thing, were when she was into me, and would have considered ANYTHING an adventure, as long as it was "now, with me..."

With a Party Girl, I usually bail immediately, 'cause she's into the party, not into me, and she'll party ALL NIGHT, and I like to fuck before 5 A.M. because otherwise I'm too tired/drunk...

I advocate "not thinking too much" for approaches, the 3s rule, etc. However, the usefulness of this "not thinking too much", for me, is not to create an adventure: its usefulness is more for myself, to be free and creative and say whatever comes to my mind, not giving a fuck about what she thinks. This may, or may not create an adventure for the target.

Jake Thomas: Start thinking about what adventure means. Adventurers are people who do something thrilling simply for the rush it gives, at least according to Mirriam-Webster.

Main Entry: ad·ven·ture
Pronunciation: &d-'ven-ch&r
Function: noun

Etymology: Middle English adventure, from Old French, from (assumed) Vulgar Latin adventura, from Latin adventus, past participle of advenire to arrive, from ad- + venire to come -- more at COME
Date: 14th century

1 a : an undertaking usually involving danger and unknown risks
1 b : the encountering of risks <the spirit of adventure>
2 : an exciting or remarkable experience <an adventure in exotic dining>
3 : an enterprise involving financial risk

Function: verb
Inflected Form(s): ad·ven·tured; ad·ven·tur·ing  /-'ven-ch(&-)ri[ng]/

transitive senses
1 : to expose to danger or loss : VENTURE
2 : to venture upon : TRY

intransitive senses
1 : to proceed despite risk
2 : to take the risk

Keep in mind you're asking the wrong question by asking what does adventure mean to her. You don't know, chances are she doesn't know either. Asking her what she finds adventurous makes her go inside without helping her know what to look for.