How to Turn Friends Into Lovers and Have Sex With Them

For example, if you come to her house every Thursday afternoon, skip it and instead give her a quick call. The key here is not to look like your mad for her saying no, but at the same time start to withdraw the massive amounts of attention you typically shower her with. This kicks women into pursuit mode, not necessarily sexual, but they will now pursue you to get back the attention your withdrawing and get them back the comfort level they know.

Step 5 – Play the Jealously Card

So now you have her thinking about what it would be like to be sexual with you, and pursuing you to get back the attention, still that typically is not going to be enough. You got to play the card which is a women's often greatest weakness, jealously.

Women hate to see another girl have what they had, or could have had. This drive is so powerful it has been known to bring the most hard nose bitches to pursuing like teenagers. How do you use it? Easy. Since she has rejected you romantically, you are free to date anyone you want right in front of her. She technically has no right to be mad or jealous, though that will not be the case.

You need to go out with other girls, the more the better. The more she knows about it the better as well. Yet again, you must not overstep your bound and throw it in her face or make it obvious you are trying to make her jealous. Just simply find another girl, take her out, be seen with her, and if possible be seen with her where your “friend” is going to be. If your “friend” asks don't hesitate her tell her about it, but again don't throw it in her face.

What does this do? Well it now puts the pressure on her ten-fold. She will not want to think she is missing out on something and the other steps will be solidified. You need to keep this up with different girls and she will make
the move.

Step 6 – Patience, Patience, Patience

This will usually work, but it does not happen overnight. For the attention to be withdrawn, her to pursue you to get it back, and the jealously factor to put her over the top, will take some time. Don't fret, don't panic and just stay your course and keep your cool.

Step 7 – Handling Her Move

She will make a move on you to get you back. The key here is not to grab it and think you won the game. Typically in most situations, girls will give you the least amount they think they can in order to get what they want. For example, if she believes that if she kisses you once you will fall back right into your old ways, then she will do it and do only that. From the example you can see the way to defeat such an expectation is not to go right back to your old ways. Match whatever shes offering you equally and let her up the ante each time. If she thinks she can just rub your leg and you'll come back, and that's true, that's exactly what she will do. Then what a consequence when your back to acting like your old self, she will decide she just wants to be friends again. Don't play that game.

Step 8 – You either Got What you Want or you Didn't

If you ever had any chance, this typically would work, if you never had a chance in hell, nothing would have worked. Keep in mind, these steps can be repeated as necessary, but this stuff is tiresome, time consuming, and is not the preferred route. The most efficient route would be to never get stuck in such a rut to have to work out of in the first place.