What does this all mean? The evolutionary stamp & the social movement are incongruent. It basically presents a confused image/impression/picture to the modern male. He asks himself, "What do women really want? A guy who is good looking, or a guy who, "has game?"
The answer is: A little bit of both.
It all goes back to reproductive biology & social constructs. Read my previous, "Billydee's Classic Posts" in the GLD for details. The fact is, women want a guy who is good looking (hot, sexy, etc.) AND who can provide stability, resources, can guide her through the choppy waters of life, etc. She wants it ALL. HOWEVER, due to social biology and social psychology, it is "uncool" for women to admit that they want to be fucked & totally dominated. If they say this openly & publicly, they will be labeled, "whores." So, when people ask women what they want in a guy, she just OMITS the fact that she wants a strong, good looking guy to pound the SHIT out of her, (because she's afraid of being labeled a whore), and instead, just says, "I want a guy who is confident, knows what he wants, has a sense of humor," etc. Then she HOPES that people read between the lines and understands that--even though she isn't SAYING IT--that what she ALSO WANTS is that guy who is strong & confident who will completely dominate her and fuck her brains out. If you think about it, guys are the same way. Ideally, we want this strange hybrid/combinaton of a girl who is smoking hot & sexy who we want to fuck, and a girl who is comforting, nurturing, motherly, etc. so she would be a good mother to our children. If a girl is too much "sexy," she is labled a slut. If a girl is too motherly & nurturing, she is un-sexy and is labeled the, "good girl," or, "little sister," that you don't want to fuck.
It's all about balance.
