TD Phone Game Creepy? 2 Chicks Say Yes...

Jugo  wrote

Ok.. I know this isnt something new but, i just dont know what to do about it.. every day i see a lot of opportunities to approach, but i just cant.. im afraid. When i try to think what am i afraid of i dont know.. so i guess theres nothing to fear.. but i still do.. =\ i would really appreciate help

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Alessandro  wrote

Say "booyakasha" to random by-passers. Or wear a shiny watch/ring and wave your wrist to them "bling bling." etc. You don't have to start conversations, start with throwing sound effects at people and other drive-by openers like that.

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Jugo  wrote

I hope your joking..

Primus wrote:
>What are you afraid to loose ?
>Think about it, are you afraid
>you'll blow it - if you do you
>shouldn't be. Remember it
>doesn't matter if you loose or
>not and it'll become a lot
>easier.

thats what i was trying to say.. i thought about it and there seems to be nothing to fear.. but i still do..

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Cardinal  wrote

>>I hope your joking..

Of course he is not. There really is nothing special about throwing sound-effects at people or waving something at them. A lot of non-PUAs and girls do it, so it's not very effective by itself but you will get perhaps 2 secs of attention and then you have to hook them.

It's very easy to do and not very anxiety-provoking, honestly. Because if you don't have a frame to support what you are doing, like putting a big ass smile on your face, you will just be ignored. Which in turn will teach you by reinforced behavior, to give out more stimulus for the wanted response.

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So_Cute  wrote

The 3 second rule really helps. Train yourself to use it. Practise all the time. As soon as you see a set thats good to go, "3-2-1-go!" and approach them. Always approach after you have done this, like it's just not even an option not to. Build momentum with the 3 second rule with throwaways. "Hey, do you know where X Club is? is it far? Is it big like X club? etc". Get talkative. Even if it means talking to an octogenarian.

this works. Take it from someone who has gone out many times in the past and not approached a single person. After a while you'll look back and wonder what the hell you were thinking!

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Jimmy Ferraro  wrote

STOP it.
Stop being such a fuckin pussy dude.

Dear creator of this post,

please stop being a pussy, it really bothers my intellect. You really need to grow up and become a man.

3 second rule. just live by it bro. u will be fine, stop making excuses for yourself.

having fear of an interaction is selfish as shit. being afraid means one thing, you have nothing to give them! stop trying to GET and start trying to GIVE. if you go talk to anyone WITH this attitude "what can i GIVE these folks and leave better off with?" thats all u really need.

Prize patrol dude. you are the prize patrol from now on.

give give give give give. what u don't want the million dollars? alright. somebody will and you are going to find them right now.

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A2daMIR  wrote

there is a difference ebtween having butterfies in your stomach ( anxiety) and actually being afraid to go talk to a girl.... but the thing is, BOTH of them go away the more you sarge....the fear is just ridiculous, what do you have to loose?

if you dont talk to the girl, you already lost her anyway, but if you do talk to the girl, there is a chance you'll pick her up, and if not, well its better to loose her knowing that you tried, then just accepting the fact that you dont have a chance with her..

and for the 3 sec rule, its good for starters, but once your into the game for a while i dont think its really neccesary.... I think the 3 sec rule is a false time constraint you put on yourself ( the same one you put on sets when you open), so it might help you in that sense...but that doesnt mean if you see a girl and apprach her 5 sec later you wont succeed lol