After almost 5 years of being on mASF, I'm still...

7) hire a nutritionist and clean up your body
8) get regular spray tans
9) go to the orthodontist and get a behind the tooth wire (this may not be possible)

The most important are 4, 5, and 1. Those are the key to fixing your inner game. The rest are external but will help as well. Good luck.

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veryAFC wrote

wow 5 years?

probably someone said this before, but

1. u gotta go out more and try the techniques, reading about physics won't give you the skill to do hard problems, you gotta do them. The techniques arn't set in stone, everyone's different, and somethings are just to subtle to be noticed to be put down in words. For example, experienced gamers know what to do in every situation, even if they've never been in the same situation..

2. just pick up your balls and do it. Honestly though, what do you have to loose if you go out to a club and fuck up on a girl u don't know? Max is she's gonna talk shit about u to friends u'll never meet.

also, a great way to meet girls is go to the mall, find a hip store, find a cute girl, pay her 20 bucks to tell her to pick some clothes for you (regardless if she works tehre). thats a good amount of 1 on 1 time you'll spend with her, and a lot of opportunities for lines/jokes/whatnot.

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soniq wrote

How can one find what they lack? They can day dream and think about their secret lives. But, life doesn't work that way. You don't play catch by making errant throws.

You've first have to find positivity. In our world, what you expect from it is usually what you get from it. You are alone in control of your destiny, so act on it. Don't look to people and see what they have better than you, see what you have in yourself and accept being shorter, taller, skinnier, dumber, and whatever you think negative. Improve what you can.

Start your days on a good note, no matter how little you slept or how tired you are. Starting your days with confidence is like choosing to make the world a better place for you. Speak your mind and speak to people friendly banter or cocky funny, more talk means more social skills and less fear.

Self-esteem is not a problem. Self-disesteem has been beaten in our heads (depends) since we were little kids "Don't do this or that!" "Dress like all your friends, you don't want to be laughed at!". One absolutely must understand it's the differences that we have that make us "special". Everyone is made/created to be different NOT inferior or superior.

Never give up. Yes, never give up on hopes, dreams, aspirations, and goals. You'll see people who succeed because of their ambition. Charles Schultz, the famous Peanuts comic writer did not have friends or a girlfriend in high-school, he had his cartoons rejected from both from his high-school paper and from Walt Disney Co. but what did he gain in the end? He became the most recognized ARTIST of the 50s and on and that is because he was persistent and knew what he wanted.

PEACE.LOVE.BUBBLEGUM