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After almost 5 years of being on mASF, I'm still...

> I have a 156 I.Q. - according to
> HighIQSociety.org

I'd take that with a grain of salt. IQ testing is not a trivial exercise. But I am sure you're a smart dude regardless.

> I'm rich believe it or not

You are personally rich or your parents are? If it's the latter, do yourself a favour and make sure you don't tell any chicks you're rich, as it will come off as fronting of the worst kind.

> I am too skinny

Sarge indie rock and goth chicks dude! There is NO such thing as too skinny for these women, they will love you. Dress to show this off, not hide it. Buy skinny rocker jeans and wear them with trendy shoes. Go to concerts.

> I am a huge video game/computer nerd

Nothing wrong with this. Just don't allow it to define you totally.

> I watch too much television

Easily remedied - stop watching it.

> I never go out to sarge in bars or clubs,
> except the mall sometimes

Gee, I wonder why you haven't had any success sarging women with all the theory you've got from mASF ... oh wait, you don't sarge much. Well, here's the reality man ... you need to GET OUT and sarge, do throw-away approaches, put this stuff to the test or it's useless.

> I've never been in a bar or a club

Most bars suck, don't stress on this much.

> My ward-drobe is not too great

Wait, aren't you rich? Go buy some clothes!

> Now I'm not afraid to sarge.

Everyone here at some point was afraid to sarge, they just got over it because their desire for success and action overwhelmed the fear. You just need to get over the fear, and you're the only one that can do it.

> I throw away so many opportunities.

So stop. FORCE yourself to take them. Stop being afraid of success, you deserve it and it's there if you go for it.

> I still want to fuck though. I want pussy. But I AM pussy. Help please.

The only person on mASF who can help you with this is you. You're either afraid of success (what is your confidence level sexually? Do you think you could increase this if it's an issue?) or the desire really isn't there (if it isn't, fine, come back to sarging when you want it SO bad you get over the fear). But it is up to you on all counts. Good luck man.

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noonehalfway  wrote

It seems like you are starting with a lot more than most of the guys on this site. But you seem to lack the confidence to take advantage of them. A desire not to fail really seems to be hurting you as a PUA and a person. Get out there. Whats the worst that could happen? Some girl doesn't buy what you are selling. There are many girls out there and you always have a chance of success when you approach them. Sitting in front of your computer on this site is time that you could be better spending out honing your craft. One thing is a guarantee, if you don't go out and try to meet girls, you won't.
Good luck.

"The world meets noone halfway."

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Travers wrote

Euphorio wrote:

>... a xxxxxx. No kidding. I've
>never had a girlfriend, I've
>never kissed a girl... never
>even seen a chick (outside of
>my family) naked. I'm 19 years
>old now (20 in February), and
>I discovered mASF when I was
>14!!!

Well, at least you've gotten to see some female relatives in the buff. That's a start.

So you're twenty, and you're a virgin. Big deal. You'll bone eventually, and it'll blow hard, and you'll be all like "That's what I was so scared of all this time? Rolling around awkwardly with some random chick for ten minutes while we made vague slapping sounds and I lost my boner?"

But then you'll get over it, get the hang of it, and it'll all be cool as corn from there on out.

I studied and studied
>the theories and completely
>blew my chance at trying them
>out in high school; the years
>when I was supposed to get


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