College Pick Up Game Plan

Also, start smiling a lot. I've been smiling every time I pass a mirror in my house or in a bathroom so that it becomes natural for me. Then just start making eye contact and smiling to girls you walk by at school or in class. Even if you don't have time to talk to them, at least smile.

This is useful in college/university because you have a good chance of seeing the girl again in a campus pub or bar. Then when you are at the pub and run into a girl like this, go up and talk to her. She'll either remember you or think you look familiar.

Try to start remembering who is in your classes and when you see them out of class, they become easier to talk to.

By the way, I'm contributing to this thread because it helps me out as well.

Take it easy,

Fubar

ps...remember to smile. It seemed really unnatural for me to do it, but it's starting to become second nature after just 2-3 days of my mirror exercise. Try it out if smiling seems weird to you. You'll become so much more approachable.

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Zenin  wrote

hooktup87 wrote:
> Another problem is that I don't drink and so it feels kind of awkward being at
> a keg party without a drink in your hand. I guess I could get over that.

Drink water. There's always water.

Not being a drinker is a huge plus. While alcohol can often loosen up a guy enough to actually make an approch...the approch he makes can't help but be worse. Women don't like drunk guys, even mildly buzzed is bad, and smelling like alcohol isn't a turn-on either. Being a non-drinker you've got a huge advantage over everyone else around in that you've got a sharper head on your shoulders, you're more in control, more secure, and you smell far better.

> Smiling is one of those things that could definitely help, but I kind of think
> I look better when I don't smile, although I don't look as approachable.

Smile, at least a hint of smile. Look in the mirror and practice varying degrees of smile. For most people there is actual effort required to simply look "nutrual", it feels like you're already smiling but doens't look like it yet. At least be at nutrual.

-Zenin