I feel depressed and sad

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>
>I might as well end up killing
>myself, what is there to live
>for?

Do not make a GIRLFRIEND the reason for your existence. this is too much burden for some other person to share. They will sense it. They will run away. Or if they do rescue you, your life will be MORE miserable. Again, UNtil you can be happy with the prospect of NO GIRLFRIEND you will not attract quality woman.

Everyone is friendly and
>supportive towards me, even
>today a potential girlfriend
>calls me, but now i feel like
>i dont want to meet her
>because i dont deserve
>anyone's love or support.

When you are feeling like this you must GIVE love and support.. you feel not deserving.. people can sense this. They give you pity. Pity is a poor substitute for love. Stop trying to get love and support. Start giving it. Before you PU seriously I suggest you do charity work.
>
>What am i supposed to do. Why
>am i like this? Should i end
>everything now?

You are suffering from depression which changes the way you view yourself and the world. There were days when I could not get out of bed. Then A wise man told me to go help others. Another wise man told me to become physically active. A third wise man told me to see a doctor. I did All three. That was 25 years ago. I have not had a day like that since.

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Hotel Foxtrot wrote

Although I understand the 'tough love' approach of the previous comment, I don't find it helpful. In fact, it's downright offensive. Let me ask you this, are you grossly ugly? Because if you're not, someone will like you. The important thing is then not to repel them. My advice: Don't think about the close, think about the approach. Set out to get as many rejections as you can. Six a day, fortytwo a week. Eventually someone will respond to you in a positive way. And don't forget to answer my question honestly. Are you ugly, or do you just think you are?

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blingbull003 wrote
Dude i'm the same as you.. the only difference is that I try again for every time I blow it or mess up.About last 2 weeks I went into an expensive club and could not say Hi to a girl.It was depressing but I just had to forget about it and move on.I'm not a loser and that is why i'm not giving up..I believe in you and know we'll make it through.If you kill yourself you'll do nobody any harm and you'll be the greatest loser..So think about what i've said..I wish you all the best.

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TylerDurden wrote

newlearner05 wrote:
>I feel depressed, and i feel i
>aint making any progress.

You feel depressed "AND" you feel that you're not making progress. Which is the cause of which?

>I've tried going out a few
>times sarging without much
>success, the success i've

What's a "few times"?

>depressed, all i want is a
>good nice girlfriend, someone
>i can enjoy my time with,
>someone who i can emotionally
>connect to, someone who i can
>like, someone who likes me and
>respects me.

note: it's often only when you don't want a girlfriend that you find one..

why?

because you're no challenge. you're another beta male who wants to fill his void through another person.. very unsexy..

>All my life, i've never had
>anyway like me for me. I feel

and why not? you're complaining, but not asking the right questions. what value do you offer them? people are inherently selfish and that includes YOU.. if you haven't cultivated value in yourself, then there is no reason they should like you beyond basic courtesy as a fellow human being..

>i wont ever be successful with
>women. I've tried everything i
>can, i took workshop, i've

which workshop? RSD? if it was, who was your instructor? i'd like to learn more about your case for my own research purposes..