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What is wrong with me? 200 approaches no date?


>lazy to go into field is for
>the fact i have been going
>into the field approaching
>dozens of sets each week, but
>i have gotten no dates. I've
>got no success except 4
>numbers,which none resulted in
>anything.


I guess you are being too nice with girls, and not showing your sexualinterest at all.


>I have no clear direction, it
>feels i have gotten nothing
>out of the workshop except for
>some techniques and inner self
>stuff, which is probably good
>to internalise with plam
>reading gimmicks but i dont
>feel internally validated.

WORKSHOPS ARE BASIC INFO FOR 80% , and ONLY 20% of good stuff. THERE ARE NO MAGIC PILLS WHICH WILL HELP YOU IF YOU DON'T LOOK COOL. IF YOU LOOK LIKE LOSER AND HAVE LIFE OF LOSER, HB WILL WANT LTR WITH YOU.

When you go for number close HBs think that you want LTR. World is perversed now, and HBs don't want LTR, not with every guy. But you can get ONS. I knew one ugly guy who got ONSes while being drunk, but NOTHING MORE. But it was such kind of club, where all HB were like gonnabe models and sluts. So find such club. If you find club where most of big rude alpha guys hang out this is such kind of club. And all youmust do is to get big like bodybuilder and they will open you themselves


I also knew guy who had BB workshop but is not even at your level, even though he have all money he need for wahtever. It depends more on you. Onhow you absorb the stuff. If you have balls to do 200 approaches why paying for workshops? You will work same time to pay for workshops, as if you would learn yourself the level of knowledge they give you on workshops. So you worked for guys who give workshops for nothing. cause you didn't change.


>Every set i open, i always
>stall in less than a few
>minutes, is there any real
>value for being in the game,
>when i dont see a change? if
>someone could provide me a
>structure of how the game
>worked and i can see a way how
>the game works probably my
>thinking would be different.

Don't be a quitter! If baby falls down when it tries to learn walking, does it give up and crawl whole life? That's what you want to do.

>But no, nothing seems to be working.

I don'tknow how you behave yourself and how you look, but if girls don't like your apearance/behavior you wont get any chance

 >Anyone care to provide some
>advice on how i can fucking
>break out of my introverted
>shyness. How i can stick a
>conversation and create
>attraction with a woman?


Try first sarging on ICQ and similar progs. Then switch to libraries - most easy pace for newbies!!! No AMOGs, no bitch shields!!!

>I don't know, even when some
>sets smile and laugh, i always
>stall out.

I also had this but it was when I was just beginning to sarge.

You have problems with self esteem. You better improve yourself so that you can say:"Lot of HBs will want to fuck me" and then go out sarging. Then you will have no problems. I mean more your body(bodybuilding/martial arts)/ clothes and behavior in group.

>Enough of the fucking whining.
>I dont want to whine, but i'm
>frustrated in my own head. I
>just dont see a path, i've
>read through alot archive
>today but still lost in
>direction. I guess im looking
>for routines, i want routines
>and be able to transition into
>natural talk in set, but i
>have no fucking clue what
>routine to use. I'm lost.

Knowledge begins from acknowleding ones ignorance. You are already at this step.

Here is what I did when I had my head aching from sarging and bitchy HBs: I made PU pause for one month. It shown me that life is not only about HBs. And I dont have to chase them. I am not much more relaxed around HBs.


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