What is wrong with me? 200 approaches no date?

I dont know what is wrong with me. The reason i have been down on myself, and getting lazy to go into field is for the fact i have been going into the field approaching dozens of sets each week, but i have gotten no dates. I've got no success except 4 numbers,which none resulted in anything.

I have no clear direction, it feels i have gotten nothing out of the workshop except for some techniques and inner self stuff, which is probably good to internalise with plam reading gimmicks but i dont feel internally validated. Every set i open, i always stall in less than a few minutes, is there any real value for being in the game, when i dont see a change? if someone could provide me a structure of how the game worked and i can see a way how the game works probably my thinking would be different.

But no, nothing seems to be working.

Anyone care to provide some advice on how i can fucking break out of my introverted shyness. How i can stick a conversation and create attraction with a woman? i don't know, even when some sets smile and laugh, i always stall out.

Enough of the fucking whining. I dont want to whine, but i'm frustrated in my own head. I just dont see a path, i've read through alot archive today but still lost in direction. I guess im looking for routines, i want routines and be able to transition into natural talk in set, but i have no fucking clue what routine to use. I'm lost.

Yes i will be honest and say i'm a boring person, but i'm trying to change this by partaking more hobbies. But sometimes when i get in a good state i can be funny and entertaining, if i can connect. I dont know how to be social... i guess that answers my sticking point. How do i start out to becoming more social? I tend to be a wallflower in social situations and gatherings, for example at salsa i was very reserved >_< Should i grab a few books and focus on being more social first and go in field to meet new

people not with the mentality or sarging? I'm confused.

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ketostix wrote

Well I can see where you're coming from but you really should be able to spark attraction in a few girls even after a few moments of talking. And if the girl has some interest in you, she'll do a lot of talking and that'll give you plenty of material to reply to, and you might just not be able to get a word in edgewise.

I don't know since you're not a talker maybe work on displaying interest in your target with eye contact and body language. If you're stalling out anyway and you're not doing many number closes now, try escalating more and number closing more. what do you got to lose?

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jettiger wrote

Hey Mr. C++ programmer, arm with routines, but what will you do when you marry or get a GF? Still seek routines and stories on mASF? that's creepy. Can't you think on your own?

If girl doesn't want to talkto you no matter how interesting things you tell her, convo will die, cause she will be silent. And if she is interest she will even reinitiate convo.

Change your inner reality, and outer reality will change too.

Don't ask questions in the beginning. Try to make more statements. I think you didn't read RTFM. If you even did, go to Don Juan forum you'll find there some useful advice on how to talk without using materials.

Chicks can feel that you are using prepared material from your voice tonality

Reality is not real. We look at everything subjectively.

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drstrange wrote
So don't talk boring questions  You need to connect with someone on an emotional level, and you're not really going to do this with just facts. It's easy once you've done this. Just keep throwing stuff out there until you find something she's interested in. By the way, do you think you're "boring" when you're hanging out with your friends?

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Kwagmyre wrote:
newlearner05 wrote:

>What is wrong with me? 200 approaches.....

>Anyone care to provide some
>advice on how i can fucking