LR: Manufacturing Chemistry

She said, "I guess this means that I'm allowed to make out." I gave eye contact, moved in real close, and then at the last minute backed out teasingly.

When HBSmiles came back, I decided to try a line I had learned from Ross J, I think. I said, "How good of a kisser do you think you are, on a scale of one to ten?" She answered "ten." And then, I froze. I couldn't remember the next part of the line (DOES ANYONE HERE KNOW THIS ONE?].

Ice Smooth: So if you were to kiss me right now, I would rate you a 10? Well then, lets find out.

So I just started talking about how it's really the connection and chemistry between two people that makes for the perfect kiss, that some people can be a bad kisser with one person (looking away) but an amazing kisser with the right person (sp), and then I talked about how I'd approach a mouth like hers (which was a little large). She suddenly changed the subject because she was getting uncomfortable, but I knew that it was a good kind of uncomfortable and meant that she was getting turned on.

A little later, I put my hand in hers, and she just started rubbing me all over with both her hands. She rubbed my hands, then traveled up my arm. So I went in for the kiss (with all my friends still at the table). And, yes, she was a ten. She said, "We should stop and continue this later." She actually future-paced me! From then on, I knew I didn't have anything to worry about. We made out again and I suggested leaving, but she said, "Let's get another drink first." I knew this was a good sign, because she knew she wanted to sleep with me but wanted to drink up the courage to do it.

I think my friends took this as their cue to leave. The husband walked outside and the two sisters were there. I was just tingling and giving off this sexual energy from the make out (and tipsy), so I kissed the blonde very well on the lips and then just tongued down the sister. I don't know what I was thinking, but when I was done she had this great expression on her face--surprised, but very pleasantly so. Normally, I wouldn't have done this, but when I'm in an altered state lately I have this amazing intuition about who in the room WANTS and NEEDS to be kissed.

So I drank up with HBSmiles, went back to the place I was staying, and had a really great night. And the whole time she kept future-pacing me about all the things we're going to do in bed on future hook-ups.

So thank you all again.

ExoticOptions: One thing that i find really interesting is how i feel you have your own method which sounds like a mix between Ross and Mystery's methods?

Style: Totally true. My attitude is: I try everything, and I keep what works for me. Right now, I use Mystery for approaches, entertainment, and group sets in clubs. However, part of that entertainment also involves using Ross-style NLP. Then I use Ross stuff when I'm alone with the HB. And, here again, I might throw in a Mystery line or two. I don't think they're mutually exclusive, and I think both are excellent and have some overlap. I'm also still learning, because they both have so much more to offer. I also add my own stuff: throwing in my own stories and using whatever else I have within my own personality that I know will be attractive and compelling.

Strangely, I was talking with a friend the other day, and the one thing I don't do is approaches that show immediate interest. In other words, I begin with a neutral, environmental, or funny story opener. Never with something that says flat out that I find her attractive and that we should meet for coffee to see if she has more to offer than just that. I like the idea of making our sudden attraction seem like an accident or coincidence of fate. What's your thoughts on this: openers that show you're trying to PU someone vs ones where you're just a cool interesting entertaining guy? I'm willing to try more direct openers...