author: "Jugglar"
date: Sat 22 August 2004 10:18 GMT
website: www.charismarts.com.
subject: Responses to Cancelled Dates...When she calls, (if you answer and not the machine) immediately begin to tell her about your day. Talk about ...
Here is what you do.
When she calls, (if you answer and not the machine) immediately begin to tell her about your day. Talk about some interesting experience, etc... In other words work on attracting her more. Don't give her the chance to say why she is calling. You know why. Make her laugh, etc.. Then tell her, "By the way, I need to move our date back a half hour." Get her in a good mood, don't let her get to what she called about and she will change her mind about flaking on you. It is flakiness, right, she can just as easily flake on her reason to call - flake on herself.
Then, once you got her agreeing to move the meet back a half hour you can say, "Thanks for calling to confirm or were you just trying to make sure we wore similar outfits?"
See, you never let them cancel.
