Handling busy responses

author:          "Jugglar"
date:             Sat 23 August 2002 11:28 GMT
website:       www.charismarts.com.
subject:         Responses to Cancelled Dates...More often than not, the girl will agree to a hard day and time. Remind her how important it is to keep ...

I talked with her Monday on the phone, ended the conversation with:

Me:"We should get together later this week"

HB:OK, I'll be free on Thursday, talk to me on Wednesday.

This is where you should have taken a different route.

You: "No. I need at least three days notice to fit anything into my schedule. It is so busy these days. (Here you can go off into details about how busy you are, even make some stuff up) We can do it when your schedule is more free and you can make a commitment."

More often than not, the girl will agree to a hard day and time. Remind her how important it is to keep a commitment with you. Be light but firm. And do not accept her saying anything like, "Let's talk the day before to confirm." or any of that nonsense. If she says that then repeat the above statement.