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Nine Steps to a Solid Day 2
Step 4: Have her imagine the future plans with you.
Tell her what you're going to do and get her imagining it. Give her lots of details. Get her to really think about what you are going to do. And, when you talk about the day 2, use the word "we." Another key to eliminating flakes is to really get it into her mind, because this will make sure that she sets her intentions. Take her mind into the future and imagine the day 2 together.
Don't ask for the date, don't ask her "do you prefer coffee or dinner?" and definitely don't ask her "what do you want to do?" Don't bumble through it like you have no idea what you're doing. Tell her what's going to happen. And when you're done, she should know what to expect. Tell her what to wear, and when to arrive. Tell her that she'll have to buzz the front door, tell her what to say when she sees you next time.
Grant has a great little routine that adds details in all the right ways…
To help the process of getting the day 2 into her head, have your day 2 planned. Know what you're going to do so that you can really describe it for her. Have this written into your routine stack, if you have one, so that you know what you're going to say. Make it sound fun and exciting and get her feeling the excitement. This shouldn't feel like you're overselling, but rather just showing enthusiasm for something that you know will be fun anyway. Make sure she knows what's going to happen, so she feels the excitement and visibly wants to meet up with you.
Make sure you have a good day 2 planned. I'm not going to go over what a good day 2 is, but if it is too difficult for her, or requires too much commitment from her, then get a new day 2 plan. If it's too easy for her, she might be more likely to flake because she's thinking it's not too important. You want it to be just right. And, always bring her into your reality.
Step 5: Make her say "Yes."
Don't accept a weak "ok." Cancel the plans, if she wont commit 100%. Tell her that you've changed your mind. This is good for two reasons…. One, it will save you the time of waiting around for a girl that MIGHT show up. And two, it will show non-neediness and scarcity that will often generate more attraction and actually motivate her to commit. A high value guy doesn't want flakes because he doesn't have time, so if the girl isn't really committed, a high value guy will not bother. Demonstrate this. Don't be afraid to turn her away.
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