Here's the thing I like to do. Girl Code. This is the one of the biggest…works in every set. It is probably one of the best techniques we have. Any time you see girls and you're talking to them and you ask them a question or anything, when they hit an emotion, a high emotion, they'll look at each other. All the time. Call them out on it.
PUA: They're saying (with their eyes), are we picking up the same things, are we seeing this guy the same way?
SB: Exactly. We wanted to get to the bottom of this, see exactly what was triggering this. Basically they' re looking for approval from each other, because they're feeling the same emotions. When girls feel these emotions, they know what these are. They feel these crazy emotions and that's actually getting them hornier when they're feeling these different emotions. They just want approval from their friends when they're feeling the same things. If just one of them starts feeling it she's going to get embarrassed. So, they want to know that all the girls are feeling that same emotion. That's why you'll get a lot of cock blocks, because they're not feeling the same emotions. So girls are always checking in with each other. Now that we know this, call them out on it. "I know that look. I know what that was. That was girl code. I know that." When you're with a wingman, you say, "We know that chick. Why don't you just ask me a question about her." And we just… (SB does the girl code sideways eye shift to his wing, that the wing would mirror.) They die laughing. It's the funniest thing ever. Style has another version of it. He calls it a ‘ best friends test.' Girls do the girl code, then he goes "Are you guys best friends. I could tell. I'll prove it to you guys. What is…your favorite shampoo?" (The girls look at each other.) See. You didn't even answer the question and I could tell because you looked at each other. Then right after you say that, they 'll look at each other again. Then you say. "See, like that." And they lose it. They lose it. It's probably the most effective technique we have.
PUA: What's the difference in girl code between this guy's cool and let's get outta here?
SB: Girls have girl code for everything. They can basically, have a ‘conversation,' let each other know what's going on, without verbally acknowledging it. One of them is like the ‘let's get out of here' look. They sort of roll their eyes. Or they'll just look at each other. All you guys have seen it. So right after they do this one (sideways look?), you go, "I know another girl code, too. It's the let's get out of here look. But you guys didn't do that one yet." You just bust them on that. It lets them know you know the deal. They'll actually appreciate this shit, because most guys don't understand this. It builds a certain level of comfort as well. What girls do too is when the set is going really well and they're feeling all these emotions, they'll hold hands. They won't even realize they're doing it. Like this, standing right next to each other holding hands. And you'll see them pump, as soon as one of them feels a strong emotion. That 's how they signal to each other that it's going well. It's really weird. Sometimes you might be working with a wingman and you steal (?) the set, let's say the girls have their back turned like this, they'll still have their hands down here pumping like this, letting each other know that it's going really well. The second one of them breaks it like that (pulling away sharply), the other one will go and both you guys will be blown out of the set.
