A Lesson to learn

author:          "Jugglar"
date:             Tue, 11 Feb 2002 15:00:00 GMT
website:       www.charismarts.com
subject:        If stuck in a rut, ...You must get her interested in YOU. Not the other way around...

There are many guys out there who try this way of showing interests in her interests. You can think of it as an advanced AFC technique. This can work for 8s and below. But 9-10s and girls who have had a lot of experience with guys hitting on them will not respond well to this kind of approach. She has all kinds of guys getting excited over the thimble collection her aunt Mildred left her.

You must get her interested in YOU. Not the other way around. Your connection to her is made through shared emotional states not shared interests.

Like many arts speed seduction is complex. You can become a master and then practice the art with simplification and ease. But you are trying to skip the work that is neccesary to reach that point by using a basic approach.

Remember, great performers always make it look easy. But you don't see the years of sweat and toil they put in to get to that point.

If you do a cool trick or have something great about yourself it can help you with girls. You just have to get them to ask to see these things. Appear a little reluctant to pull out your magic trick. You want to hook them and have them thinking it was their idea.