The Sex in Oriental Hot Tub House

So the challenge for tonight is ->

Meet for dinner, and over the course of dinner, get her comfortable enough to get naked in a hot tub with me.

Meeting up:

She drives to a nearby shopping center, and I pick her up there. In the car we have a few different conversations. Most of what I do is vibing - straight association, nothing flashy or too tricky. The energy is good, we are both relaxed and feeling good in each other's presence. She tells me about how the night she met me, her friend was trying to hook her up with some guy. (part of the initial 4set.) Since she doesn't like getting hooked up by other people, she said that she gave the guy an attitude without even getting to know him. Just goes to show the power of frames and preconceptions!

I related to her by telling her a story about a friend of mine, who got moved into a new room on campus. Since his new roommate had intended for someone else to move in there, he viewed my friend through a preconceived filter, without getting to know him.

So we shared some commonality and awareness of social situations.

We then talked a little about dating and stuff and how people are judgmental I told her about my sister who is dating a big black guy now, and my parents are a bit anxious about it. My dad asked my sister "You guys aren't serious, though right?" and I joked about how what he really means is "He hasn't fucked you with his huge black cock yet right?" Had some laughs.

Arrived at the restaurant. From the car, I grabbed her hand and led her down the sidewalk. I tell her to consider this as a vacation, where she can escape to a fantasy world with no rules or worries. Arriving at the restaurant, I opened the door for her, and escorted her inside. Leading, Leading leading, as much as possible.

Sat at the table, talked some more. Straight association vibe...

We talk about our close friends, and I tell her that I don't really have a social circle (true). I tell her that I have a lot of close friends who have their own circles, but I rarely merge circles, and my friends know each other through me.

I also tell her about how I am doing workshops (I opted to tell her before sex, so in the future if she ever finds out, it wasn't some secret thing I hid from her), and how I used to be such a player. But I got sick of being a player and playing games and meeting trashy untrustworthy girls all the time. This led me to some genuine qualification.

I talked about how guys and girls play games and pretend to be disinterested, in order to manipulate a person's emotions. I told her that she seemed very real and genuine, and that she makes me feel very much like myself. At this point we are in deep deep rapport, almost a trance like state. (Talking about this thing reinforces the direct framework I am using for the seduction.)

I then focus even more deeply into her eyes, and relax myself into a more intense trance state. She goes along with me, (because I have been dominant and leading) Then I give her some more SOI's and tell her how good it feels to be with her. (This also has the effect of making her feel as if she is seducing me)

At this point I'm in good shape.

We get back in the car (infamous van, actually) and drive to the hot tub place.

We arrive and she reads the sign and is like "Hot tubs..."

The person behind the desk leads us to our room, and gives us our towels. He leaves, she looks at the tub, looks at me and says "Now what?"

I say "We get in!"

She responds with "You're going to see me naked already?"

I say "Of course not baby, I'll cover my eyes!" (Jokingly, half smile)

She goes to the restroom briefly, and I get naked and get in the tub. I turn on the jets, bubbles and lights to full power.

She comes back.

She says "Are your eyes closed?"

"Yes."

I can't tell what's happening. I'm trying to peek through my fingers, but all I can see is steam and bubbles. I'm feeling great.