The Sex in Oriental Hot Tub House

-Conversational attraction techniques
-Telling her what to wear
-Extensive pre gaming on phone
-Tight qualification, understanding of her reality - cold reads
-Having her drive out to my place (one hour), subtle prize frame
-Setting frame right in the beginning - telling her we'll have a wonderful romantic night together, and it's like a vacation away from her ordinary life kind of like old lovers reuniting (Our world frame from TokyoPUA)
-Strong eye contact
-Planning and leading evening - creating a fantasy world for her, that she's never experienced before.
-Absolute honesty - telling her I teach workshops BEFORE I went for lay. A risk, but I did it in a very genuine manner, and I think buyers remorse would be worse if I told her or she found out afterwards.
-Relaxation and visualizations an hour before we met up. (Remembering all the times women wanted me or I was successful, over and over)
-Dominance - caveman-esque kino when going for the lay.
-Inducing a trance state by going into trance myself while looking into her eyes, and then giving her a significant SOI.
-Screening questions as a means of connecting and learning about one another.

I used no "DHV's" and told no long stories, avoiding anything resembling an entertainment frame. Besides, canned material is out of style. ;)

Also I'm starting to think that NOT consciously doing DHV's is a DHV, if that makes any sense.

Initial contact and phone game:

I was at a low key nightclub in Boston and saw a mixed four set (2 guys, 2 girls) come in. Decided on the target and approached the group. (Opener: "What's up guys, where you from...") I was cool and vibed with everyone there, as to avoid cockblocking, and then immediately sat with the target. Didn't bother to isolate or try to extract because since she was on a "double date" the logistics would be nearly impossible. Talked for about 5 minutes or so, and # closed. Moved onto the next venue with my wings. (Some people think that 5 minutes is a flaky or non-solid close. They do not yet realize that the time factor is completely irrelevant in PU. If you are ever thinking that a PU didn't go right because you didn't spend enough time on something, there was another factor you're not aware of.)

Isolation is only good when you plan on going for the same day lay or when you plan on venue changing. If you are just trying to #-close, DO NOT ISOLATE the chick from her friends. If she gives you her number in front of her friends, flaking will be reduced dramatically. It's the dynamic of her wanting to show her friends that she met a good, desirable guy. The friends will be questioning like "Did he call you, see I knew he wouldn't call" and then the girl would be responding in your favor like "Yeah he called, and he's really cool, we're going to do something." It becomes a little drama thing where the friends are a bit jealous, and the target is hoping she met a great guy for once. It will work out in your favor - all you gotta do is not fuck up!

I left her few chilled out messages. Pretty plain: "Hey what's up. It's me calling to chat and see what you're up to. Give me a call." I focused more on being relaxed and having clear, deep and slow tonality. She didn't call me back at first, so I was persistent. I kept calling and leaving messages, because I knew I could reframe it later.

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How to be persistent and have it work
************************************** Continue to call and leave messages, ignoring the fact that she isn't calling you back. Assume rapport, treat her as an old friend that you are about to reconnect with. Be cool about it, and not mean or spiteful in any way. Set it up in your mind as a low investment on your part, all you're doing is making a short call, to remind her of something wonderful she can have. Once you get her on the phone reframe it with this:

Girl: "Sorry I haven't called you back"