I am convinced that LRs are the most valuable learning tool on this entire board. In particular, I have found the LR tutorials of TokyoPUA extremely helpful. And, since he is back in Boston, I thought I would pay homage and write this one up in a simi
Lay Reports also act as a testament to your legacy as a PUA. It is the documentation and representation of the art, in its pure form. From it, you can learn so much about real pickup - what works, about the style of the artist, and so on. It is not merely a way of bragging to others on the board about getting laid, it is the prime essence of PU, as it proliferates real life knowledge and experience.
There's a lot of preparation and theory before the actual LR. If you would like to just read that, scroll down to "Meeting up" below.
Target Analysis:
Absolutely stunning asian chick (Raised in the US, though). 9.5 or so on my scale, but will be treated as a 10 for all intensive purposes, because of how people respond to her in her environment. She has guys hitting on her wherever she goes - continuously. A girl like this doesn't go 5 minutes in a public place without some guy saying some nervous, predictable kiss-ass shit to her about her looks. Most of them say dumb things like "Wow. I would love to take you out sometime." (But then does nothing to actually make it happen) "You don't have a boyfriend? No way." "OMG - Are you a dancer?". Or they go over the top in the other direction by trying to show indifference or by being mean to her. Almost all men are completely incapable of subtlety and moderation, because they consider her to be so rare and special because of her beauty. Every man in the vicinity would glance over at us wherever we were, and then quickly look away as to not get caught by her or the women they were with.
My treatment:
Distinguish myself from every other guy by treating her like a normal person for once. Connect with her, qualify / compliment her on non-physical things. Be absolutely honest and real. Be clear about my true intentions (both sexual and of a platonic nature) and express them in a tasteful way. Cold read her and pace her reality. Steal her frame, but not in a blatantly cocky or insecure way. Have strong unwavering dialogue and frames. Give strong eye contact.
I will use what we call "Implicit Direct" game. It's a direct framework with a toned down opener so as not to be immediately categorized with the hundreds of other guys that hit on her that week. In other words, it's a game standard to the protocol outlined in my direct game post a while back, but with a specialized compliment (or a "What's up?") as an opener. Works marvelously with SHBs. (Specialized vs. Broad compliment style opener means you're saying something that makes you stand out a bit by seeming perceptive -> "Wow, that purse... (pause) it really compliments your style!" vs. "You are beautiful.")
Logistics (pre-planned):
1. Have her drive to my town. (Slight reverse supplication, my reality, I lead and control)
2. We eat dinner at a classy Italian restaurant.
3. Built in isolation -> We go to an old fashioned japanese hot tub place. Appointment already made, but a surprise to her.
4. Back to my place after hot tub, more sex to further connection, and insure proper conversion.
Logistics were planned before the date. Always build isolation into your logistics. Lead her confidently there according to your plan.
Keys to getting the lay (pre-planned):
-Direct approach and give great compliments. (Direct works amazingly with SHBs when you do it with class and distinction, see my complete guide to direct game post for more on this)
-Mild c+f, to make her laugh
-Frame control
-Open loops - pleasant surprises
-Dressing uniquely confidently. Pinstripe suit. No tie, instead slightly unbuttoned shirt with a small pendant around my neck. One ring on right pinky.
-Slow, romantic kino