Mutual Value Escalation

Take no disrespect! When a girl disrespects you, it's her trying to raise her value a bit by slamming yours. Instead, you assume your value is still where it's at, and that hers is SEVERELY decreased by her disrespect.

Then treat her appropriately. Like, if you can, imagine the 9 that just said some rude shit to transform into a 4, and it's a rabidly ugly drunk girl that's talking shit. In this case, you'd probably what?

Turn your back to her? Tell her that she's rude? Laugh and make fun of her? Roll your eyes and look at her like a little child?

Ignore her entirely?

If a woman is willing, I'll take her and me to new heights together. We'll thrive together in a partnership, and if she measures up, a relationship. Sometimes we'll make love, sometimes we'll have sex, sometimes we'll get down and dirty and fuck real nasty. We'll have great conversations, do fun things, and both learn more about ourselves. We'll see sunsets and sunrises and I'll show her things she's never seen before, and I'll learn everything I can from her.

But not if she wants to be a snotty little bitch. There's, quite literally, a line of girls that are begging for my attention, my affection, my love. So if one girl can't realize what I'm worth, she'd better get in line ASAP.

So take it as a severe knock on her value. Many people, when faced with someone being hard to get or disrespectful, want to prove to that person that they like them. Wrong response.

So, after she's disrespectful to you, you either "neg" her, as appropriate, or maybe dismiss her entirely in favor of better girls. If she was not being entirely attentive, then it might be time to tease her a little. If she was downright fucking rude, then it might be time to tell her straightup, "Hey, I was just being social, having a conversation, and that was rude. But... have a nice evening."

WAIT, DIMITRI, WHY NOT JUST NEG RIGHT OFF THE BAT?

Because, quite frankly, I don't need to. Have you ever seen an old, black and white movie, with a man playing a manly actor telling a woman that she's so beautiful and they'd be perfect for each other. Lots of times, the girl melts for him on the spot. Sometimes, she doesn't. But if she fires something at him sarcastically, he always shoots right back with something clever about how she's blowing her chances.

AND, it would presuppose that I need to neg, which I don't. This all goes back to having/being a high value person. I come in assuming I'm already supremely high value, but that's another topic for another time.

**IN CLOSING**

Don't try to cut women down so you're better than them. Instead, lead them and make people around you better people. You can do this by encouraging them, complimenting them when they do well, and disciplining them when they fail.

You assume a high value, and you create even more by this attitude. Really, everyone you meet will be picked up a bit, and become a better person if they work with you. If they work against you, they go from having you in their corner to you judging them harshly: And they see that you're solid in heart and mind, so they just made a huge mistake. The vast, vast majority of the time, this is enough to correct the behavior and not have it around you. It doesn't mean that you'll get any one, individual woman, but it does mean that you'll constantly have attractive women that are loyal to you and good people around you. It'll also make you have more friends and more loyal friends, as well as more contacts, acquaintances, and so on.

Without being too sappy, trying to leave everyone you find a little better off makes you a LOT better off, and people will follow your lead. If someone is disrespectful, you don't tolerate it: You see if they'll fix their behavior, and it's sayanora if they can't.

Feel free to add more thoughts and technique, my friends. This avenue of game has been around forever, and it's the most successful model of leadership and playing the game. Just because it hasn't been talked about in this way before en masse shouldn't stop you from logically thinking it out and realizing that you know lots of people who do this and are successful with it. Chip in some thoughts, and let the discussion grow.

Always yours, Dimitri