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Social Vibing
In summary, how does this apply in practical terms? Most of it comes in, during comfort building phase. Or if you use a different PU model than I do, then its when you're getting to know the girl either way. 1) Don't crack jokes to the girl, and laugh at them before she does. Wait. You'll notice that it sometimes takes even 10-15 seconds for a joke to process. But it DOES. I usually bust on her for it "Oh, slow processing time.. That's OK, you're my little sister.. I didn't adopt you for your brains" Also, don't say "right" after everything. It can come across beta. Right?
This is DIFFERENT than the C&F stuff early, where you break rapport on purpose. In fact, much like how the "25 Points to not trying too hard" assumed that you were in EARLY GAME, this post to some extent at least assumes you are PAST early game. SHARE her excitement by recognizing rhetorical social sequencing.
MUCH MUCH of the mid/later game is the chick qualifying herself to you. Because our pickup model encorporates alot of not trying, you'll notice your best pickups (with NON-party-chicks at least) are with the ones who at some point EARN your attention. They perceive that they've WON your interest, and plan to COLLECT THE PRIZE (your dick in their mouth). 4) If a girl tells you about a problem, just LISTEN and change her emotion. Say "Ouch, that's sounds tough.. But hey, you're a powerpuff girl, and you know you're to fiesty to let this stop you.. Let's check out x,y,z" Definetely don't offer advice. If she wants advice, she'll say "WHAT SHOULD I DO?" Unless someone asks me what to do, I rarely offer advice. OR, I say "You know i have experience with this, so maybe later you can ask me about it." 5) Focus on SOCIALLY VIBING and don't CLING TO TOPICS. This will prevent flaking, and make her feel comfortable around you. Don't leave on a high note. THERE IS NO HIGHNOTE. There is only vibing and flipping the switches that she needs to have switched in order to fuck you. ===== -TD On 9/10/03 11:17:39 AM, finalD wrote:
It's true, geeks need a presupposition to hang out. Interesting. I think I'm a natural geek, for sure. Thanks for all the great feedback. I thought the guys' answers to the questions that were given were really bang on, and covered my bases. I suppose this sort of approach is the "external" way of coming at the problem. The other way of course would be the "internal" way, which would mean improving your inner game so that you're not needy and you're not insecure. I think that inner approach is great and has alot of value. At the same time, the externally focused approach is what solved my internal issues, because once I figured out the points of how internally-balanced people acted, I got laid and then started to feel better internally. Like one thing I like to do with newbs is tell the girls from the set I'm in that they have to tongue him down and grab his dick, or I'll leave and blow them off. Or I'll tell a girl from a 2set that if her friend isn't warm to my friend, I'll leave because he's bored. The girls do this, and then the newb walks around strutting like he's the man for the rest of the night. Then he PU's another separate chick on his own, gets MOMENTUM, and it snowballs. These are extreme cases of the externally focused approach, but just focusing on the mannerisms of successful guys can do the same. At the same time, for alot of guys they really need internal work. Like no success will fix them internally. So I think that both approaches are great. I know Twentysix is now running great game, and he did both externally focused stuff (going out 4 nights a week), as well as seeing a psychologist. By Tyler Durden 
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