Point of Being the Prize

You might be thinking: "Having no mental barriers is great and all. But I have them. Most people have them. And how in the world is success going to be normal for me if I haven't had much of it?"

The Biggest Key To Smashing Mental Barriers & Making Success Your Normal, Everyday Reality Is Pushing Your Comfort Zone.

The biggest mistake men make, holding them back from heaps of success with women, is not pushing their comfort zone.

We all have a different comfort zone.

Perhaps just looking a woman in the eyes or saying "hi" to her is a big feat?

Maybe you feel comfortable starting conversations with women but the idea of kissing a woman a few minutes after meeting her makes you a bit queasy?

Whatever your comfort zone is, you probably could benefit from expanding it. We all could.

Here's how I took my comfort zone from very small to mammoth in size...

Years ago I was painfully shy. Even the thought of approaching female strangers made me shudder with fear.

So I set a goal for myself of looking three women in the eye and saying "hi." This was so far out of my comfort zone it took me twelve hours to complete. But I made myself do it.

Soon my comfort level grew and saying "hi" to three women became no big deal.

My next objective was to say "hi" to ten women in a single day. This was quite a feat but I did it.

Then my mission was to actually engage a woman in a conversation. Scary stuff for me but sooner than later, the mission was accomplished

After that, I set a goal of approaching three different women and engaging them in conversation over the course of a single evening. Then five. Then eight. Then twelve.

My next ambition was to rub a woman's back minutes after meeting her. Strange, I know. But I knew a ladies man from high school who used to do this. It blew my mind. I wanted to be able to do what he did.

Soon this became well within my comfort zone and I found myself always giving women I'd just met back rubs.

Then my objective was to... gulp... kiss a woman I'd only known for a few minutes. I kept practicing this until it became the norm for me.

Then one night I was out with a friend of mine who witnessed me kiss six women that night. He was blown away and inquired, "Did you get their phone numbers?"

But the sad reality was...

I Didn't Even Get One Of Their Numbers!

Back then it seemed weird and felt uncomfortable asking for a woman's phone number – even when I'd already kissed her.

But I pushed my comfort zone, and started asking for women's phone numbers. I got really good and accrued a pile full of numbers. Yet I was petrified to call any of the numbers.

I forced myself, though, to call two numbers a day. And soon I mastered talking to women on the phone and setting up a time to meet.

Next I learned how to take them back to my house and get intimate with them. And the story goes on.

Here's my point...

I didn't attempt in one night to go from barely feeling comfortable muttering "hi" to the opposite sex to confidently planting a kiss on a woman within the first few minutes of meeting her.

I took it one step at a time.

I did what the Japanese call "kaizen," which means incremental improvement. Each day I'd push my comfort zone a tiny bit. Over the course of a few months I achieved massive improvement.

But there's one thing I haven't mentioned and want to come clean about...

When I was starting out I didn't have a mentor who'd figured out all of the pieces to attracting and succeeding with women.

Not only did I have the challenge of pushing my comfort zone, but also had to figure out on my own the best ways to progress from one step to the next with women.

If I'd known then what I know now, I would have gotten where I wanted to be in a fraction of the time.

The good news for you is that I've put all of the secrets I've discovered from countless hours of trial and error into a book.

You'll get a complete education on attracting women where many men just like you have been successfully mastering the exact steps to consistently approach, engage, attract, and become intimate with the women they desire.

Push your comfort zone this very moment and start succeeding with the women you want by getting your hands on a copy of my e-book. You'll be glad you did.

By Swinggcat