So, you set that frame as if it were already true, and ACT AS IF she is attracted to you. Be confident. TOUCH her like she WANTS to be touched. (Example: Put your hands around her hips, hug her, etc... whatever you normally do AFTER you've put her in an attracted state.) Be congruent (meaning don't change your pacing too quickly, don't be apologetic if it SEEMS like she isn't into it, etc.
You can TRANSITION from state to state by ASSUMING her NEXT state. If she's attracted and you're going for rapport, ASSUME rapport and act as if she's already there... and draw her into that reality...
Continue this through the whole state progression, and watch your PU times get lower and lower.
PUA Aura
What is the PUA aura? I've been thinking about it, and the vibe that I aim to put out.
-positive energy
-quiet confidence
-someone people would WANT to be around
-comfort in own skin
-pauses to build up anticipation for jokes, etc.
-no fear that talking slow will lose attention of girl or group
-no fear of "awkward pauses".. let's them linger if he wants
-rarely laughs at own jokes or C&F comments, while others laugh
-makes statements, does not ask questions until someone has earned that level of rapport
-totally in control with absolute security of positive end result
-knowing confidence/smile/breathing
-peaceful look, like from "Meet Joe Black", but with an ultra bad-ass
cocky/confident/playful an unlimited ammunition of bad-ass C&F lines
-ability to switch gears without warning.. "You're silly... goof.............. (change tonality to sexual) I want to see you."
-does not look around at other people, or look concerned or threatened by anyone else.. very much in internally-centered
Alpha scale!
I think its because girls DETECT when you've HEDGED the opener and conversation with overly cocky shit, to protect yourself from rejection.
It's called BOLDNESS VS. CONFIDENCE.
SCALE:
-MACHO GUY
(overcompensates by being too bold)
-GOOD GUY
(doesn't qualify himself, but isn't mean to cover up)
-NICE GUY
(overcompensates by being too nice)
Be the good guy. A little cocky, cool sense of humour, but not trying too hard. Trying too hard to be macho/bold is beta because its overcompensating insecurities
Affirmations
1. I talk slow ...
2. I do not care what others think ...
3. I do not move or turn around because of others ...
4. People have to work for my attention / interest ...
5. I ignore those who are not worthy of my attention ...
6. I move slowly, relaxed and controlled ...
7. I stand straight, poised and spread in a relaxed way ...
8. I speak in a deep, relaxed tone ...
9. I remain alpha regardless of what crisis comes my way ...
10.I never supplicate to others ...
11.I never qualifie myself to others ...
12.I am the anchour of the conversation ...
13.I am never impressed ...
14.I only have rapport with betas, except for a few exceptions ...
15.I answer questions with degrading jibberisch ...
16.I don't give a fuck about others ...
17.I get more credit for minor actions than betas ...
18.I have the ultimative comfort in my own skin ...
19.I am the leader ...
20.I attract others with my frames ...
... because I am Alpha
By Maniac High
