Should I neg a 6 / 7 that I've known for a while on msn but am meeting tomorow

*Opener, etc...*

*Fluff Chat Begins*

"Susan, that's one of those common names you never hear, what origin is it, or don't you know?"

"I'm not sur- *puts hand to throat* Would you buy me a drink?"

"What do you want?"

SCREECH! STOP! HALT! FINITO! You are out of the one-set. Just like that, ejected. "The Bait" was buying her a drink. "The Sell" was putting her hand to her throat, true maybe she's parched, I usually ask women are you even thirsty and they respond, "No," so learn to tell the genuine from the insincere. Additionally, I didn't say whether or not you bought her the drink, because at this point it is regardless, you implied that you would. If you do it's -5 points to you game if not it's -2. Any which way you split it, it's a loss. True, you're game is out of 100 and you can salvage it, but this is just one of many minute hoops they she will hold up, rarely will a women blatantly hold up a circus ring, they will be hoops. Way's to avoid this DO NOT include, when the waitress comes back, I'm broke and No.

Be more suave about it, do not avoid it, skirt it. Say something more like, "Not on the first date." "I don't give candy to strangers." or My favorite, flag the bartender and say: "How much for a water?" or "The Lady's thirsty, does she already have a tab started?"

Ironically enough though, the best way to skirt jumping into a hoop is to jump in! SAY WHAT?! Yea, but don't jump the gun hombre, first you make her jump into your hoop. Ahhhh, I see the look of comprehension wash across you, perfect. She say's, 'What's you're name?' You Say 'Darth Vader' She laughs... hopefully then enforces, 'Seriously, what's your name?' thn you rub Han Solo cream on you and become the SuperPUA and say 'Smile for me, good, now tilt your head. Perfect. Let me get a Coke, Joe.'

And BAM, you just made her jump through two hoops, more trivial than her's but again cumulative. You got a -5 for buying her a drink, however, you got a +3 for making her smile and then tilting her head was +2, effect negated. Game? 100%

Way to stay cool under fire.

Another point to not is the avoid tactic.

'So, What do you do?'

'I'm a watch model'

'Seriosuly, what do you do?'

'I'm Tom Cruise's Stunt Double'

*the crossbones*

'Let's talk about that later'

annnndddddd... Steke Three! Your OUTTA HERE! Never avoid any question more than once. Do lie if you want/have to but make it plausible, and if you are Mr. Cruises stunt double, have a pic of you on set or at least a photoshopped one.

Have a Great Night Everybody!

-Vincent Chase

P.S. It occured to me that nobody really has any clue what "Crossbones" is. It's an old Body Language term used to describe someone emmiting dis-interest, expressly. Namely by cross their arms and/or legs. It's called "lock out" and tell you to get out... quick.

P.S.S. Never us a Neg as a defender. If you get ejected from a set, do not be vindictive, stay cool, walk away, say 'pleasure meeting you.' and make her regret, sarge every other HB in the room. The best revenge is no revenge at all.

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soopafly4eva02-15-2006, 01:43 AM
^^^
some great info here.
I'm meeting the girl in about 14 hours and I'm pretty confident things will go well.
a lot of the MM stuff is real new to me but I'mma focus on having fun and doing my best to follow the processes and I'll let you all know how it goes
thanks again for the info/support

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Vincent Chase02-15-2006, 01:58 AM

At first I would go out and be franticly beside myself and conversing personally:

"Okay she started a sentence with 'So' that's an IOI, or is it an IOD, what the hell do they mean again? Those are some nice tit's. NO! Stay on the game, Chin up, she's looking at you, remember man, smile."