Should I neg a 6 / 7 that I've known for a while on msn but am meeting tomorow

"Too bad I don't put out."
"We're going to be great friends!"
"I love celibacy."
"Your smile is so great, I can't believe I won't get to know it better." (Why not? Well because who know's when we'll se each other again. *silence* Tell you what, i'm doing ~something~ tommorow,why don't you drop by? [then if she say's yes great, if she say's no, try and set up another timebridge.])
Keep em' fun and playful, DO compliment her, not to death though, for every compliment use one plaful neg or rather disqualifier, they're not exactly negs.
Good luck man, she sounds great. Chin up, and eye's on the prize... that means 'get a mirror'
-Vincent Chase

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Iceman
You shouldn't be negging anyone below a 9-10.
The negs are designed to knock her off her pedestal a bit...and the less attractive girls don't have a pedestal to begin with.

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Sovereign
And again, if she is a 6.5, why do you need to neg her, or do any of this....dude, she's a 6.5. Come on.

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Vincent Chase

Thank's alot Masters. Considering he said that he was meeting this girl "tommorow" and considering the date of the post I decided to cover all bases so any that anyone having any question regarding Neg's could simply be referred here. Makes it easier on everyone. Least I could do for my (n)AFC brethren. Where N equals any AFC prefix. =]

Thank again for the compliment, HOLY ASS CRACKERS YOU"RE A FORUM ADMIN, wow, damn. 'Scuse me, I shit myself.

=]

 

That being said I would want to go aheadadn give another tip. Neg theory is a great way to improve your game, but Neg's are almost always going to be situational. For example, you may see a 7 and assume, oh easy game, no negs less DHVs, it's in the bag. BUT! In walks her 11 friend (It's unwritten law that HBs must take pity on lesser women) or maybe She grew up loaded (I almost always have to neg trust fund girls even if they're under 8.) The worst is the 7 that think's she's a 10 though. You go in open, and start you're routine when she looks at her watch and tell's you:

"I'm sorry you mind as well not waste your time."

or my favorite (this is from an actual beat down I got last month)

"Hon, you're just going to go in one ear and out the other. I'm whack-tose intolerant and you're too damned tacky."

FYI she was a 6. A drop fucking 6. So again, NEGs shouldn't be in the barrel, they shouldn't even be in the magazine! They're in you're pocket for when you need them. I wait to use a Neg until after something called, at least I call it, the Appraisal Phase. This occurs before the Phase shift from A1 to A2. There is the lay qulaification, (i.e. Would I do her? Yes. *appraoch*) followed by A1, then during A1 at some point you ask (Is she worth it?) Why do you ask this? Because, if she's a 7 acting like a 9 and a 10 walked in the room, she is no longer you're target and you ask yourself now, so you don't stop halfway into showing her interest. This phase also serves another purpose. It gives you a chance to asses what comes next, so she's 10 BUT she's got the self-esteem of a 3, No negs. See how that works?

Now I latched onto hte concept of Neg's from the start, I've been doing them prior to discovering the community, some people have difficulty and I understand that, but to for me the single, the biggest and largest improvement in my game when I heard about Hoop theroy. I made sure never to be a patsy, but I never noticed all the subliminal hoops I jumped through! Now before I begin I will say that most hoops are not that great at lowering your value, however, they are cumulative. One stone doesn't Break the window, Enough will break the house. Get it?

Imagine a cat. Imagine a Hoop. Imagine the cat jumping through the hoop, this is hoop theroy. The cat won't jump by itself, it needs bait, dangle string on the other side. (Which reminds me all AFCs should examine Cat String too.) Who's dangling the string? She is. Who's the cat? Your are. What's the bait? Let's find out in this example.