So you neg for the main purpose of her lowering her "automatic defensive responses."
Now onto why you shouldn't use a neg, Only women 8+ should be negged. 0-7s aren't on the top of the self esteem ladder and using a neg could shatter them, instead swap out a neg for a compliment without sacrificing your AMOG status, example: "Hi, I've been looking for a hand bag exactly like that all day. My sisters birthday is next week, you wouldn't happen to remember where you bought that?"
See? She doesn't have the looks to have been hit on enough to develop defensive weaponry, i.e. there is no bitchsheild, so negging is not necessary, and in fact it would be detrimental, so instead you boost her, either directly or indirectly.
Secondly, to neg an entire group would be what is called "locking yourself out" the set is dead now move on. You came off as pompous instead of disinterested and like an ass instead of cocky.
Hope that helps.
