So you want to neg? Do it right

author:         "Vincent Chase"
date:             Fri, 17 March 2003 22:26:00 GMT
website:       www.themysterymethod.com
subject:        So you want to neg? Do it right ...Additional uses: a pDLV can be aimed at an opposing aplha male, or any competition for that matter. A general rule of thumb is to not use ...

NOTE:This is verbatim from another thread (Should I Neg a...), but it is good info I think I should jog some of your memories.

It seems that a lot of people are unsure about whom to neg, well here's some great info for you guys:

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The whole shenanigan of negging started as "Neg Theroy" and neg theroy is still pertinent to this day, it is a viable, proven true time and again method, however, neg theroy has scince expanded to envolpe;

Disqualification Theroy and False Disqualifiers
Pregnant Demonstrations of Lower Value
DHV Spiking
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Additional purposes for the neg itself. None of these are covered in great detail at mostly and publically available source, at least not that I could find. But in Talking with MM grad's (haven't taken a BC myself, yet.) and just guys that have been in the community long enough to be more knowledgeable than me I've discovered that these are very distinct subject matter and can be Differentiated by the following:

Neg - A statement purposed to lower the target's "Bitch Shield" by telegraphing dis-interest and sexual dis-interest.

Additional uses: A neg can be used to knock someone of high status down or de-value someone formerly valuable to the set.

pDLV - a Pregnant or Intentional Demonstration of Lower Value act's exactly as a traditional Neg does in that it telegrapghs dis-interest and sexual dis-interest, however this time, however, the subject is you rather than the target, or any one for that matter.

Additional uses: a pDLV can be aimed at an opposing aplha male, or any competition for that matter. A general rule of thumb is to not use it for this purpose until after you have demonstrated to the target your investment in her.

False Disqualifiers - A False Disqulifier is apparent, the name says it all, it's something that appears to disqualify you though in actuality it does not. The quintessential FDQ is: "Too bad i'm gay, cuase you'd be so my type."

Now to clarify, You are not "Demonstrating Lower Value" nor are you "Playfully Insulting" the target, however the effect is the same, in her mind she can treat you as an equal because you have either A.) Lowered her bitch sheild, taking her off protocol, or B.) Given evidence that you are not interested in her, specifically not solely sexual, or are unavailble for her sexually.

IMPORTANT!: There is a difference between a false DQ and an ACTUAL DQ, telling her that your wife didn't want to leave the kids home alone really freezes you out of any chance you had at boning her, and if that's the truth just stay home unless your wife want to be a swinger, it isn't worth the trouble.

DHV Spiking - Is the act of nonchalantly giving her indicators that you are 'Somebody.' Mystery gives a great example of this whic is available in, I believe (i'm not 100%,) the video archive. Telling her that you and your buddy went jet skiing and almost hit a boat... out of the water, isn't as cool as enthusing:

"So last Wednesday I was able to drag my buddy John away from his investment firm, the dude is a work-a-holic, and we were sitting around deciding what to do when it popped into his head to rent some of those wave runners, you know SeaDoo's or what-not, and just go crusing around the Gulf until sunset , that's the beauty of being your own boss, you can stay out all night. I own a couple myself so we just went back to my place, changed, put 'em on a hitch and took off for the coast, and halfway there this douche's brand new Suburban dies, it fucking dies on us and in the middle of the friggin' highway express. So we call AAA and they jump us and we're off again, for the time being. We finally get down to the dock, load out the Runners into the water and try to start them up when THAT sound hits our ears. You know the; whub, whub, whub of an engine trying to start. We spend twenty minutes getting them out of the water, tinkering with the air intake and the exhaust only to find out the the damn things don't have any gas in them, I forgot I didn't fill them up scince the night I took my girl out during the sunrise on Christmas. So we put them back on the truck, go to the gas station, fill up and have the caps on when we think, do these things take car gasoline? There was a rental place across the street on the boardwalk so we asked the guy there and he said "no, you need special gas for them," turns out the guy was a fucking liar, but we paid him to fill us up and finally got into the water.