Badboy relating to Body Language

7. Buying her drinks (trying to buy her over, or even worse, trying to get her drunk)
8. Not being comfortable talking with strangers (social anxiety)

Does any of this radiate with any confidence??? Hell no!! Take a look and see that every action here projects INSECURITY!!

Ok, let's correct this poor body language together. Here is list of things that you must FIX…

1. Keep your hands out of your pockets.
2. Stand with you feet wider apart.
3. Never look down when you walk, look above th horizon
4. Stand with your chest pushed outwards
5. Keep your shoulders relaxed and back
6. Walk confidently and slowly with bigger steps
7. Take up lots of space, no matter where you are
8. Pay attention to how you dress
9. Always lean back.
10. Touch people when you talk with them (non-sexual), because you must create conversation on all levels, not just verbal. (Later she is going to be used to your touch, and that is perfect for the pre-sex stage!)
11. All your body language should be comparable in speed. For instance, moving with confidence is good, but it looks incongruent if you talk fast at the same time.
One more really important thing my friend would tell you, "Pick-Up doesn't start when you approach her, it starts when you WAKE UP in morning!" and that's so true!

Let's move on to the subject of attraction:

In order to attract a woman, you must first understand why and how they think. Why the state of attraction exists, and how it happens.

The easiest way to understand and explain this is through something known as 'Switches theory'. You know those on/off switches you have in your house for electricity? Now imagine you have 15 of them in one box. That's an analogy for how our minds work. Women have switches such as "Is he attractive?, is he good at sex?" on or off.

Every girl out there has a different set of switches, because it really depends on their culture, their childhood, their beliefs and their age, plus a few other minor things. However, there are some common switches you must turn ON to all girls out there.

You must be:

1. Challenging
2. Alpha
3. Interesting
4. Unpredictable
5. Stylish
6. Not needy
7. A good lover
8. Humorous
9. Capable of building strong rapport
10. Secure
11. Trustworthy
12. Conversational

Now, those switches can be either ON or OFF. There is no value in-between... for geeks, it's all off.

What happens when you switch on most of those switches?? Wow... she starts to be interested in you... actually... she starts to show IOIs (indication of interest). This reaction is totally normal. When she meets a guy who is funny, good looking, interesting, romantic, and not needy, she becomes interested in getting to know him better (read: sleeping with him).

Switching on these switches is what demonstrates personality to a woman. You can tell stories where you were romantic. You can hook her with interesting snippets of your life and make her ask you questions where you get to reveal your romantic side. It doesn't matter, as long as the you flip the romantic switch to the ON position. Every story or routine you have in your arsenal is saying something to her (flipping switches.) When designing routines and stories, you need to first take a look at what you want to convey to her.

The easiest way to switch On lot of switches is through good body language, behavior, and a sense of style.

Lets take a look at me for example. If you've never seen the way I look, take a look at my webpage photo here...

Okay, let's analyze this together... what do you think about this guy just from this photo? Here is what others have said:

1. He has a lot of confidence
2. He looks like some badboy or a really adventurous guy
3. Good looking (average)
4. He is drinking expensive cocktails, so he probably has some money…
5. Sex must be amazing with him
6. He is alpha, he doesn't worry what others think.
7. He doesn't look like some predictable guy...
8. Not so needy

Ok, guys, you get my point... I switched On like 10 switches just by the way I look and behave. There are also switches I haven't flipped yet:

I don't have trust, rapport, I am not romantic, interesting... and that's it fellas!!!!

That means 5 stories for 5 more switches. That's like 5 X 5 minutes = 25 minutes to get a girl.

Of course you can convey all those things through conversation, and that's fine. But it will take 10X longer! This is the way it works for me, and I am happy.

By Badboy