How to approach in a club

author:           "Sebastian "
date:               Sat, 21 July 2007 04:00:00 GMT
source:           www.seductionbible.com
subject:          How to approach in a club ...Key for all of this is being comfortable in your own skin. You need to be able to carry on a hell of a time even if you're not engaging anyone for a period of time, or just spending time ...

Clubs aren't really my thing. I'm more of a seedy saloon type guy. I have been fortunate enough to pull some hot girls from clubs though. Even fucked some coked up 10 in the parking lot of the Euro Lounge in Kearny… those of you from Jersey know what I'm talking about….

Anyway, my club game was always based more on the fact that I was working a scene and often stumbled upon girls I had been working from previous weeks, from bars, the restruant I worked at the time, friends of friends, and shit like that. I never realliy had a plan of attack. Which is probably why I hated going to clubs so much (that and the shitty music) I hated not feeling like iwas in control. I was sort of out of my element and only survived because I had done such a good job of farming my scene.

Sebastian from the approach gives you a really good game plan for working the club scene. Honestly, i wish that i read something like this years ago, i might have enjoyed the clubs a little more. (nah…still would have hated the music… but damn, those plastic, souless, bitchess that hangout there sure are hot) but anyway read Sebastians plan called "Prime Real Estate" I give it the Bobby Rio Seal of Approval!!!

Key for all of this is being comfortable in your own skin. You need to be able to carry on a hell of a time even if you're not engaging anyone for a period of time, or just spending time with friends. But if you do it right, it works a charm.

One quick, easy to explain application:

"Prime Real Estate"

Prime Real Estate is an area in a nightclub where you can be seen by everyone, sit comfortably, and there's just the right amount of space for others to sit near you. While sometimes these areas are reserved for people getting bottle service, surprisingly often you can spot places that serve as Prime Real Estate in good clubs.

"Prime Real Estate Game"

Okay, this takes some skill. Dress well, slightly flashy before going out, and make sure you've refined your nonverbals so you carry yourself well. Get down solid eye contact and get a totally "deadly" looking walk (I've got 10 new articles coming on refining your nonverbals to you in the next two months, so look for those).

Remember to smile. Good, you now look like a very high status guy to observers.

When you roll into the nightclub, I want you to quickly open about 1/4th of the people there. Just rapid fire, use genuine interest openers and implicit direct as defaults.

"Hey, I saw you standing there and had to say you look absolutely radiant…"

"Y'all having a good time tonight?"

If the person reacts really well, introduce yourself before moving on. Otherwise, do a quick wave and leave. You'll suffer literally NO rejections if you do this right, since you're moving on so quickly.

Now, go grab your prime real estate, ideally with a friend you like to talk to. Throughout the night, as people you talked to walk by and glance or nod at you, wave them over and talk to them a bit. Also talk to interesting people who sit down next to you.

When you get to a girl you really like, get introduced to her and her friends, and (and you're going to love this):