Three keys to doing street approaches

You're walking down the street and you see her. She's incredible. She's beautiful. You just have to get to know her. You know that she would like you if she just got to know you. So what do you do next?

This is the situation that inspired me to learn how to meet and attract women. I got to the point where it was too painful to walk down the street because I would see so many beautiful women and I didn't know what to do. One day I finally reached the breaking point and I decided to take action.

This post will deal specifically with the first 60 seconds of approaching a woman on the street. It will give you some important tools to get comfortable approaching in a powerful and impactful way which naturally generates more attraction. This information is applicable for approaching single women and groups of women whether they are in the street or in malls or other similar locations.

I believe there are 3 keys to dramatically improving your success with street approaches and I'll go over each of these in detail. These three keys are so important that when I apply all of them I can consistently get a date with about one out of every three women I approach. When I ignore one, my results are much less positive.

Three keys to doing street approaches are:

1 - Master your own Personal Magnetism

2 - Develop Precise Body Language Communication

3 - Pull her into your reality

Rule #1 - Master your own Personal Magnetism

Let's face it - in most cases a woman decides if she wants to talk to you before you even open your mouth. It doesn't matter if you are in a club or on the street. It happens so quickly that guys who are not aware of it will never see it. While you are walking up to her there is a split second that she is thinking to herself "OK, this guy looks like he is going to talk to me, do I want to talk to him or do I want to blow him off". Similarly, if you are approaching a group of women they instinctively look at each other. In an instant they non-verbally communicate to each other (almost on an unconscious level) whether they want to talk to you or not. It's like they are thinking, "Is this guy cool? Do we want to talk to him?"

So, first things first. If you want people to be drawn to you like a magnet then you have to become your own personal social magnet. When this happens, people will invite you into their circle of friends and they will want to hear what you have to say. Becoming a social magnet is actually very easy to do because you've already done it so many times in the past. However, for most people becoming a magnet is something that only happens randomly. Learning how to trigger this state is fairly easy to do and once you get use to doing it, it just gets easier and it happens faster.

You become a social magnet by having a "fun to be around" internal state. If you are happy, having fun and you are in a good mood, this is naturally reflected externally in your physiology. When this happens people generally respond well to you and are attracted to you. You will be like a magnet because people enjoy being around people that are fun. I believe there is a lot of truth in the saying "there is nothing as attractive as a happy man." This is only natural because your environment helps to determine your reality. If you are in a good mood this tends to rub off on others in your environment. Similarly, if you're in a bad mood or have a low energy level, are down and depressed, serious, boring or in your own world - people will not respond well to you.

How do you rev up your own personal magnetism? I have a ritual that I go through that helps to get me into the right state. I listen to music that gets me feeling good and happy (for me I listen to the Top Gun and/or Rocky soundtrack). Find out what works for you. Do this before you leave the house.

Another way of getting yourself into a playful and fun state is to use what Tony Robbins calls Power Moves. These are very simple movements that you can do with your body that automatically get you into positive, fun and playful state. Using your physiology is one of the most powerful ways of improving your internal state. There are lots of moves that you can do. One example is to raise your hands above your head at an angle and say "yes". When you do this, do it with enthusiasm like you just won the gold metal at the Olympics and you are the happiest man in the world. Celebrate. Don't hold back. Do this several times. It is impossible to do this and not get into a positive state. Do this right now to get an experience of how it works.