(Look out for new ones among your friends and when watching movies and cartoons)
TALK
Don't talk too much. Don't try too hard to keep conversation alive - don't try to fill empty pauses. Don't be too enthusiastic and interested in what she says. Don't remember too much what she has said. Don't answer too quickly.
Don't tell about yourself unless she asks.
Avoid thought stimulating talk like questions, problems, plans, logic, explaining, analyzing, advice, argumentation/defense, fascinating, interesting, intelligent, analytical, theoretical, professional.
Always pump positive emotions - never dwell on the negative.
Never talk without subcommunication - subtext/hidden messages, body language, facial expressions and meaningful eye contact.
