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Dear Dave:

First and foremost I love the free news letter. Very insightful to say the least. It has help me regain some lost confidence after a recent break up. The success stories give me hope. Like one of your last subscribers I also have been addicted to chivalry and being the nicest guy any woman has ever meet. I have had much success with this approach, but sooner or later I get cast into the friendship zone. It happen once again to me and I am done with it. No more Mr. Nice guy. C&F all the way from this point out. With respect to my break up she is still wallowing in and out of the relationship. Started being C&F and she appears to like it. No more wuss ass sh** for me!!!!! Get a lot of laughs from her now. I am playing the wait and see game. She even called me up and said lets get back together. What do I do? please I need help now.
Thank you
JP Long Island New York

>>>MY COMMENTS:

What do you do?
WHAT DO YOU DO?
You learn how to stop acting like a WUSSY, you actually STOP acting like a wuss, your girlfriend starts to really dig you again, and you ask me what to do? Do whatever you want to do, genius. You're back in control now! Just don't turn back into a Wuss Bag,
OK?

If you really like this girl, then start dating her again. Just remember that if you start acting like a girly-man again, things will probably get bad again.

***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***

Dave,
Gotta tell you that you're right on the mark. I'm a straight female and I read some of your other advice that was passed on to me by some friends with a commentary that they thought you were totally off-base. Gotta tell ya that there is nothing more impressive than a confident and funny man.

I swear I must have run into one of your trainees - on e-mail he was cocky as can be - and funny! Went out with him once - thought I might date him again - until he called - every day - twice with sort of pleading messages....not a chance!
Dave, you're the man! Can I have your number?
C.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Thanks for the validation. And by the way, if that guy started calling you twice a day, then he wasn't one of mine! I'd verbally bitch slap him ten ways from Sunday if he told me such a story! lol...

In any event, I'd give you my number, but I'm VERY, VERY selective. Send over some pictures and we'll talk about it.

***QUESTION***

Dave,
If it's possible to say this without sounding gay, I LOVE YOU MAN!

I've been getting your letters for quite a while, and I was always kinda skeptical about the stuff you were suggesting because it sounded to good to be true. So I decided to test it out for myself.

Being shy I tried some of the stuff from the online personals e-mail you sent, and man does it work! I sent out 5 messages, and less than 24 hours later I've received 3 replies, 2 of which want to meet me already. This stuff is amazing!

I do have a question though about the one that didn't want to meet right away. She said she's a little nervous about meeting people off the net until she really knows them well. How can I bust her (and girls like her) balls about this? I know that another C+F message would change her mind in a hurry.

To everyone out there... BUY THIS MAN'S BOOK!!! HE IS THE JEDI MACKING MASTER.!
Your humble Padawan
J.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

First of all, NO it's not possible to tell me "I LOVE YOU MAN" without sounding at least a little gay. Second, congratulations on actually taking action and getting some results.

Third, as for the girl who is a "little nervous" about meeting people off the net until she really knows them, just email her and say...
"OK, why don't we hook up in Vegas and get married, this way we'll know each other well enough for you
to want to meet me.

Or, we could just get together in a public place in the middle of the day in broad daylight with a hundred people around and talk over a cup of tea.
I personally like the Vegas idea..."
...or something equally funny. Then get her phone number and call her up. This has a soothing effect in these types of situations.

Make sure when you talk to her to say things like "Let's meet for a cup of tea for 20 minutes... this way if you're really freaky I can escape with minimal time wasted."

This kind of thing is funny, and puts the idea in her head that YOU'RE the one who's picky and selective.
Great job!

***QUESTION***

Hi Dave,
I'm using your stuff and it works excellent, im 40 i have a 23 year old who id rate as an 8.5 looks, 8.5 personality and a 9 in the sack. I never call her, hint that i have other women and treat her like a hooker in bed, thing is she calls me every day, fuc** like a rabbit, say she loves me and says she shouldn't feel this way as she could have a nice guy who treats her well ;-] but she loves ME.... Now thing is, im from the uk. in the uk i had lots of action from women, since i came here, not much at all....in the uk, i was the quintessential bastard to the birds, when i came here, i heard from women that they wanted a nice man, ah..so i acted like one, got no where for 7 years, came across your stuff, put it to use and got laid FAST, thing is, I did this stuff before in England..thanks for bringing me back on track...you the man buddy, you the man....

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I get a lot of emails from guys who say things like "I used to do this stuff, but I forgot that it worked...
and thanks for reminding me."

In fact, when I ask a lot of guys who are really successful with women how they learned, they often remember stories of what they used to do, and techniques that they used to use that they forgot about.

Of course, when I ask them why they stopped doing those things that used to work, they usually shake their heads and say "I don't know. I guess I just forgot about it".
lol...
I'm glad you're getting your game back.
Best to you.
That's one good idea for dealing with your fears.

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