Tomas: Often I think us males forget that the other (female) half of the human race are born without penises. They simply do not feel pleasure in life the way in which we do. Yes they can have orgasms, but I would be willing to bet that if they experienced a man's orgasm for just a split second it would literally BLOW THEIR FUCKING MINDS.
Style: Nice post, but have to disagree with you here. I've been with women who have super-intense, body-quaking orgasms that blow male orgasms away, to the point where they just collapse in hysterics, crying and laughing at the same time. So, one would think, why wouldn't these women want to have these orgasms all the time. And the answer is that they can usually only have them with someone they feel completely comfortable with in bed (and usually have an emotional connection with as well). So one could see that need to make an emotional connection and feel comfortable with someone before jumping in bed with them as, perhaps, a need that's motivated by a desire ultimately for physical pleasure...