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Make The Hot Girls Want to Not Flake
Yeah, this is so true I wouldn't even call it an anti-flake defense. It's like, if you didn't set something definite up, then you don't get to call it "flaking" when she misses it.
Style: Yes, this is it. I was listening to a radio show today on carnival barkers. When they're trying to get people in the tent, they have six steps they go through (which sound a lot like PU stuff). The third or so is called the jam, and that's when they say, "For the next five minutes only, admission is only one dollar. Step inside now, and see the flea circus while you can." Of course, the admission is always a dollar! And that is exactly what you are saying above, FinalD, telling her to act now, otherwise you're going to be unavailable, out of town, and with a supermodel!
When you're eliciting values, elicit EVENTS too. Then, when you #close, you can say, 'I'll call you to go to that..." (whatever, but the more memorable the better--concert, amusement park, cool bar). This probably seems like obvious advice, but the flake factor is much less when you close with a definite plan rather than just an agreement to "hang out."
Neo-Rio: When you consider that seduction is about increasing desire and reducing fear - you have to understand that one without the other is useless, and will cause a flake-out. If you get a flake, look back at what you have worked on with the chick and see what part of seduction you are lacking. If you've done enough safety/rapport/One world type stuff on a chick, then if she flakes, it'll be because of lack of kino or solid SOI. OTOH if you've been too direct and she didn't show you any IOIs at all, she'll get scared of you. Once I was speaking to this chick that really liked this guy but was scared to call him back because she was scared that she'd screw up over the phone talking with him. This reason also has to be taken into consideration. Some chicks simply don't have the guts to go for what they want either - and they screw their opportunities up along the way....
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