Gunwitch: If you've done your job of seducing her properly shell flake on that job faster than shell flake on an AFC for a dinner date to fuck you. This is another problem with bar/nightclub sarging is that its so late in the day that unless she has off the next morning she might object to the ONS. I think thats why Friday and Saturday night are THE nights in most locals. Daytime and evening PU (in my city anyway) is reliable because most shit isn't open late so they are off for the day or already off work and have free time to "fuck off".
Candor: Generally not a problem for me, because I always cut off weeknight meetings at 10 while things are still going well. But in theory, if she's with you at 2 or 3 and has to get up at 7, she has already made the decision (or thinks it was made for her) that interacting with you is more important than being alert at work the next day. You have to be doing well to get to this point. So the deal is pretty much in the bag. All you have to do is take her to bed. Tell her she's not going to be able to fall asleep at her place, because she's going to be fantasizing about what might have been. Tell her you'll give her a massage and calm her down so she can get to sleep. If she argues, tell her she's wasting time that would be better spent getting relaxed and ready for bed. Be dismissive of her arguments and tell her she's being "silly" and has nothing to be afraid of.
Of course, the massage you give her will lead to kisses on her back, followed by kisses on her neck, and eventually flipping her over and letting her feel the weight of your body on her crotch. At that point, you're just about home free.
Style: But this work thing is where I keep having the problem. I think you have the right answer here but I need a little more help. I just got home, it's a Sunday night, and I'm coming from what would have been a perfect PU. Visited a store a friend owns, saw a young HB7.5 in a tight little red dress making eye contact the whole time. Suggested we get some food so we could talk (she paid--for sushi even--while I was in the bathroom), got some drinks, and she was perfect--giving me all her trance words right away and, after I bounced them back at her, she started dropping sex talk into the conversation, setting me up perfectly to improvise some patterns. We leave the bar and she walks me back to her house. She says she's tired. But then she opens the door and walks upstairs, and I follow. Then she runs into roommates, and we talk to them. She says she's tired again and has to sleep for work. What I should have done was either cut the night short much earlier so I wouldn't be in this situation or brought her back to my place. But instead, I *closed and left.
