DYD Masters Recap, Day Four -- By Thundercat

Now it was time for Swinggcat to talk about traits women like. He said that women like guys with extremely high standards, because it gives them a model to strive to live up to. He talked about a routine he has to communicate this to women, that goes as follows:

"Are you adventurous? Are you spontaneous? If you were in kissing school, what grade would your kissing teacher give you?" (get her answer) "Let's find out." (kiss her)

He explained that this technique works because he gets her to ratify that she's adventurous and spontaneous, then if she backs out of the kiss, she's seen as a liar and incongruent. After you're done kissing her, he'll then give her a grade that's lower than the one she gave herself, to get her to qualify to him and communicate that he's the one judging her and therefore has the high standard.

He also said that women like guys who challenge them. Anything you can do to get a woman to qualify to you is a good thing, because that's when they are wanting and reaching for your approval (after all, you're the one who's setting the challenge).

And finally, he said that women like guys who have a strong reality. How do you have a strong reality? By defining the underlying meaning of the interaction as you being the prize. You also want to control the frame. You know you're controlling the frame because you'll be the person doing the least work in the interaction (ie: they're the one's trying to engage you) . Swingg elaborated that you want to focus on yourself and give the woman directions and take a strong lead. You want to bring them into your story. You do this by taking the spotlight in the interaction and not asking too many questions. He said you always want to bring her into your world when you meet a woman.

If you're interested in finding out more about Swinggcat and his method and philosophy on picking up women, be sure to check out his website realworldseduction.com. You can also email him at swinggcat@realworldseduction. com

After Swinggcat came a guest speaker I was not familiar with. His real name was Eric, but he goes by "Hypnotica," and is a friend of Steve Piccus, the unsung godfather of the seduction community. A lot of the concepts that Steve Piccus developed were the basis of a great many things we now take for granted.

Hypnotica really lived up to his name. The guy is the very definition of a Man. He reminded me of Wolverine from the X-Men movies. He had an extremely large presence, and when he was up on stage, he OWNED the room. Hypnotica is a hypno¬therapist, and talked a great deal about energy and other wu-wu stuff. But when he talked about it, it actually made a lot of sense. In a way, it reflected what Amber had shared with the seminar on Day Two, but was much more relatable due to Hypnotica's stage presence.

He talked about how masculine energy is nothingness, and feminine energy is love, and how the ultimate goal of the feminine is to open up the infinite and embrace the nothingness of the male. He described anxiety as misused energy, and how you have to give yourself the flexibility to fail.

He talked about the mediocre man's existence, and how mediocre men enjoy nothingness. Then women enter in, and the mediocre man buys into their energy. They move to the masculine extreme of nothingness and lose their way.

Hypnotica described the job of the man as opening up the woman to nothingness and God. He said in order to do this, you must know your life's purpose and take time to practice and think about life.

I know in reading this, you guys are probably thinking "this sounds like complete bullshit," and in reading it myself, I agree with you. But Hypnotica's presence was so powerful, you could FEEL what he was getting at when he talked about this. I really believe this will come through if his section makes it onto the final product.