Overcoming the 'Age Difference' problem Age

author:          "Jugglar"
date:             Tue, 18 Oct 2004 16:12:00 GMT
website:       www.charismarts.com.
subject:        Overcoming the 'Age Difference' problem Age, ...For instance, I just turned 34. I love to bring up the subject of age. Girls will ask me how old I am and I will give them my hand or make a slow 360...

Good topic.

You want the girl sarging and closing you. Any topic that she brings up that is about you is good. Don't be afraid to discuss anything about yourself. That is where you want things. The longer YOU are the subject the better. If you turn the conversation away from your age (or any subject about yourself) she will avoid talking about you again and that is not good.

For instance, I just turned 34. I love to bring up the subject of age. Girls will ask me how old I am and I will give them my hand or make a slow 360 degree turn so she can see the whole me and ask her to guess my age. Or I will tell them I'm 34 and talk about how it was to turn 30 and that I like getting old and can't wait until I'm 60.

No routines here. Just enjoying the attention and letting it stay on myself. I am proud of being older than most of the girls I talk with. I like to talk about my ever increasing gray hairs and forgetfulness. I get into talking about the weaknesses of my age.

So if you are 20 I would recommend being frank and open about it. Wallow in it as a topic of conversation. I'd say, "I'm 20. I am so innocent and flakey. I can vow to do something and then change my mind 2 minutes later." Be proud of this 'weakness' and it becomes a strength. Have this ability to discuss all your 'weaknesses' and you will become a very powerful presence.

Older women and their stupid mentalities

One of the few instances I have felt lucky to be a relatively old guy. Okay, there are two ways of handling this:

1.  As Allesandro says and show some anger (even if you have to fake it) Don't take crap about stuff that you can not do anything about. You have a right to call them on it. It is their problem. You aren't too young. She is too old.

2.  Stay calm and ask her to be more specific about why she likes an older guy and what feelings that gives her. Security, being taken care of, made to feel young (by comparrison), etc.. Try to realy understand.

Then tell her you can give her none of those things. (That's right. Don't be tempted to be an NLPer here and try to give her those feelings or anchor them to you) Instead point out how you are different. You are only capable of giving a girl excitement, fun, adventure and a really amazing experience in bed. Tell her you studied at a special massage school that they send Geishas to or something. You gave her values on the subject a fair hearing. She will reciprocate and give yours one too. In the meantime you have the chance to promote the idea of having a casual affair. After you do your speak go right into kissing.