Interview For Wilder

Ya, that's good. So I don't really play with that story much but, my thoughts of it are really good. I especially like the line about, you know: "not from birth gay, more prison gay." I think that's a hilarious line. I put a post up about Story Theory, and most of what I did to that story is in that post. Like, putting what I call "an initial hook" up, which is something really quick that's gonna pull your audience in. Which is, in that case: "Have you ever met a gay cat?" And its like "What?" Now you know they're listening. And then, you know theres a bunch of bull to the middle part, but the end part is still some sort of a punch line, which is "If you want, I know where you can get your very own little gay kitten." So, that's how that story works out.

Shit Tests and Emotional Women

On fastseduction we often talk about seducing the girl's emotional brain, do you think there is a point at which her logical brain has to be seduced as well - she has to logically see you as the best person she could be with at this time?

I just watched Don Juan de Marco the other day, and he talks about how every woman is a puzzle to be solved, so yes. It can revolve around age, where you live, what you do for a living, your nationality. If in her mind she has to be with a Jewish guy, and you're not Jewish, then you'll have to address that at some point. You may end up addressing the logical aspects of that from an emotional perspective because obviously she has to come to the conclusion that it's ok to be with you.

In a way any logical question could be treated as a shit test?

We've started calling shit tests, 'Alpha Tests' he talks about how, when a woman's testing you, she wants to feel your masculine power. Imagine if you met a guy like in the matrix, on whom you couldn't land a blow... You'd want to see that, you'd invite your friends over, you'd sneak up on him, break into his house when he was sleeping. and he'd just wake up and move - and you'd be like "amazing!" and you'd want to see that again and again. So that's what we think of when a girl's testing you - she's just amazed by your masculinity and she wants she wants to see how you're goning to get over that objection - she wants you to pass. They're begging you to show them exactly why they should be attracted to you. They want to see that you are the man that they are hoping that you are. What we do a lot of the time is evade and be playful - if the girl says "I only date Jewish guys" then you go like "Oh I only date supermodels, we've gotta get you an agent... you're good looking enough, but I don['t know if you're ... get yourself on the runway". Then it's like, over.

So do you think it's possible to pre-empt shit tests, if the girl is asking you to display masculine traits, is it a sign that you're not displaying them in the first place?

Multiple Relationships

You said that you guys have a lot of experience with relationships. What do you see as the difference between cold game for a one night stand and the longer term game to find someone to bring up your kids, which I know a lot of guys are interested in.

That's an interesting topic, let me say one thing before we go into that, and that's that in my opinion there are two places that pick-up guys come from in the community, and 90% of these guys are guys who woke up one day and said "you know what, I don't have any women, and I need to develope some game because it's making me miserable", and they go out and they learn pick-up. And they go from being a guy who's an AFC and has no women, to being a guy who is a player, and they don't ever have a relationship and they don't know about building relationships. Some of the best guys in the community, some of the best pick-up guys there are, have had one relationship, or two relationships. That's a very different place to come from than someone like Sensei and I who both found the community after having, in his case 10 years in my case probably more like 6 years, of successful one or two year relationships in my past. So most guys are guys who don't have a lot of relationship game.