This NG is ABOUT getting CONTROL of this fear. Not running from the places where we get most of the results.
Society has its mating rituals. When a woman wants to fuck (Im talkiing about her genes and not her conscious thoughts) she will get emotions driving her to seek social situations. She doesnt bother getting dressed and looking good just to dance. Dancing is even a way of showing the health of the body for a suitor (you.) She is seeking a mate. And yes she will go to a place where there are possible mates. Granted she will only pick the best. But girls dont put body and looks high on the priority list. The top three traits are a good smile, a sense of humour and confidence. The fourth is connection BTW. So there you go.
Excuses are for the non laid - Mystery
