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Re: Introductions

author: "Mystery"
date: Tue, 15 Sep 1998 04:00:00 GMT
subject: Re: Introductions

>Do you really give a rats ass what her name is? I know I don't. Within 5 seconds it's not going to help you conversationally.

Yes I care. Knowing someone's name is to show respect for the individual. You'd be surprised how a smile can disarm the attitude of a girl. This does not have to be your opeing script, but it should be said within the first minute. AND it should be negotiated by the man. Playfully smile and say, "Hi. Im Harry. :)" Immediately after this, have something to say ... nothing sexual, nothing hitting. Just yak. "Have you ever been to the science centre? I just got back from there and I learned something rather odd. They've got this bubble chamber that allows you to see natural radiation from our surroundings. Have you seen this? Well, it turns out, I'm looking at this thing and ..." and there you are into a natural conversation. Handshaking and name exchanges are required at some point - known as negotiating.

>Personally I never ask what a girls name is. I wait for her to initiate the introductions. This is good way to tell if she is interested as well.

I disagree mildly. Its more dominant to initiate the handshake or name exchange first. A ladies-man is a man who is in CONTROL. He is the man with the plan. He is strong, and well-mannered. He is Rhett Butler. And Rhett Butler is pleasant and commanding. YOU introduce yourself to her. Dont wait for her to do the work. HOwever, if a test is what you want to do, then tell her your name but dont ask hers. If she is well mannered and polite AND interested in you, she will tell you HER name. If not, just stand there looking at her waiting for her to say something. If she says, "what?" Then you can neg hit her with, "you dont get out much do you?" @2009 - The Ultimate Collection Of seduction Opener, Close Routines and Other seduction Tactics