author: "Mystery"
date: Sun, 13 Sep 1998 04:00:00 GMT
newsgroup: alt.seduction.fast
subject: Julian Writes and Mystery Responds
>First of all, I'd like to say that you're one of the coolest things from Canada since Savage Garden and John Candy.
Thank you :) Which reminds me. If a girl happens to compliment you, you can reply, "You're not so bad yourself." :) It almost has a NEG HIT tone and comes off so well. Remember to smile.
>My first question is about clubs. Are there any other places besides clubs and bars that are good places to pick up women? Bars aren't really my type of place to hang out at (like you, I don't drink).
While I don't drink, I have gotten pretty good results in clubs because there are so many women in a given area. You get to find the best of the place quickly and approach up to 10 girls in a single place which is great. SS man Ross Jeffries says that coffee shops are good but I find it not as good for me yet as the clubs. I have already attempted to get girls in coffee houses and such but the girls so far were just not attractive enough. They seem too young for me (16-19) . I prefer 21 - 29 with 24 as my optimum. I am in fact still trying to find the RIGHT places. FIND has been the toughest thing for me lately but I am TRYING and getting good results by getting out and attempting to find the best places. I've been going to places Ive never been before and that is a good start I think.
>I like the pet shop idea. Unexpected places like that are good places to find women.
Unexpected places? Consider reasoning where the best places are likely to be and try there. A systematic investigation will help us all. Research the city on the net. Ask women where THEY think is the best place to meet women. Ask and ye shall gets answers.
>All of the things you've mentioned in the
postings and most of Ross Jeffries's ideas are sound ones but finding the women is half the battle, at least where I'm from (western Pennsylvania) . There are no cool clubs or bars around here. It seems that once a girl turns 19, she leaves the area and doesn't return until she's 30 and has 4 kids. There are no places to find attractive girls, age 19 - 23 (I'm 20) . What do you suggest?
Again, ask the women! If you were to walk up to strangers and say, "Hi. I'm single. I dont want to stay this way. Do you know where a strapping man such as myself could FIND women my age with which to meet?" If you say this to a pretty woman, this will be a great NEG HIT for HER and maybe get her interested in you. Otherwise, she may tell you. Ask her why she goes there and then offer to go there WITH her so you could meet people together.
>My second question deals with you. What line of work are you in? What do you do to support your hobby of club-hopping and seducing? Just curious.
I'm a performing artist. I do corporate events and have worked in clubs.
>Thanks in advance for your insight to these questions, as well as
all the other info you've posted. I'd like to contribute to the group but I still need to get some experience first.
Accept the NEWBIE MISSION (see the post)
>You see, I haven't been able to get this to work yet, for I'm still in the learning stage. Once
I try this, I can report on my success or failure. At least if I fail then I'll have something against which I can calibrate my methods. I guess I'm still letting that initial AWARE state keep me in fromt of the computer instead of getting out in society and trying.
Yep, start the NEWBIE MISSION today! !!!
>P.S. You should compile all your knowledge into a web site. You can get a free one from GeoCities, or maybe through your ISP.
I have been thinking about this actually. I have saved all my postings for this. Who knows. Its an idea :)