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What a great outfit for dancing. .care to try it out?

author:         "Mystery"
date:             Fri, 11 Sep 1998 04:00:00 GMT
subject: Re: What a great outfit for dancing. .care to try it out

>"What a great outfit for dancing. .care to try it out?"

This may be a good way to ask a girl to dance if you WISH to dance with her. Little issues are ... she can answer with a "no thank-you." Consider devising questions that cannnot be answered with a yes or a no. As well, asking someone to dance is not that much a a good thing for several reasons. Firstly, it's too obvious that you wish to dance with her not because you enjoy dancing so much as because you wish to court her. Too stereotypical. Also, dancing wastes alot of time. While you are dancing, you could be TALKING to her. If she asks you to dance, go for it, but only ask HER to dance if she looks at the dance floor alot while you are talking to her. But then, she isnt so interested as to want to talk with you so maybe she isnt interested in you anyway?!!

Formal courting sucks because it sets up classic behaviors - well defined ROLES each must play. Forget formal situations. Dancing, formal dates, etc. Dont buy her a beer or any other stereotypical mating ritual until AFTER you know they are interested. Candles and incense is good to burn in your room if a interested girl comes over, but if she is just hanging, these things will tip her off as your immediate intentions and shell feel uncomfortable. @2009 - The Ultimate Collection Of seduction Opener, Close Routines and Other seduction Tactics