Re: To Ross Jeffries or SS (Stuttering)

author:         "Mystery"
date:             Mon, 08 Sep 1998 14:20:00 GMT
newsgroup: alt.seduction.fast
subject:       Re: To Ross Jeffries or SS

Like all insecurities, if it doesnt bother you then there is no real problem. If a fat guy meets a girl and openly attempts to hide his fat by slouching or wearing pure black (merely a psychological trick) or makes excuses like "Im on a diet" then he looks insecure. On the other hand, if he is fat but dresses very nicely and never mentions it and acts as IF he were a stud and a 10, then he will have MUCH better probibilities with women. Notice fat guys with gorgeous girls. Other lowly fat guys think, what does HE have that I DONT have. The answer: self-security.

So if you st-st-studder, you st-st-st-studder. Dont be shy. You arent WEAK genetically because of it. Its only a studder not a fucking thirs arm. If you were to say to them, yeah I st-st-studder. That's me. Get used to it. Cant handle that, then f-f-f-fuck off.

Make jokes about it FAKE some of the studdering in ways that shows you really are comfortable with it. If YOU are comfortable, they will be MORE comfy. If they make a joke, analyze whether they were giving you good natured ribbing or really fucking with you. If its good natured ribbing, you could say, "In my w-w-world, everyone talks like this. You should hear how fucking wacked you s-s-sound to me!!!! :)" It they are truly fucking with you, shrug it off. So much more composure that way.

Im 6ft5 and slender so sometimes people call me STRETCH. It used to bother me but now I simply smile and call them SHRIMP. I smile though, this makes it worse because I make it seem like they didnt get to me. IM too VALUABLE to CARE about what YOU think. Some say, "Boy are you TALL!" I always

answer, "Thank you."

Maybe this is a bad example because being tall has been more advantageous than a hinderance for me, but I hope you see my thought.

Fuck em. You studder. But you are MORE valuable than they are. Give them smiling NEG HITS.