A new name

author:          "Mystery"
date:             Mon, 07 Sep 1998 04:00:00 GMT
newsgroup: alt.seduction.fast
subject:       A new name

Player
Womanizer
Pick-up artist
Speed Seductionist
Steel Ball man
Seducer
Don Juan (sp?)
Deceiver
Illusionist
Ladies-man
Professional Asshole
Romancer

I would like to give this wonderful art a name we can all enjoy and appreciate. I don't personally care to have the word Speed in it as its not all that 'romantic'.

Any ideas? Seducer is pretty good.

Also, SS calls scripting patterns. Some say, "Im going to make a 'play' on a girl" - a football connotation. Ive been calling it a HIT. If it didnt pan out, I call that a NOGO. Did it go? no. Womanizer is appealing but in this day of equality, I do not wish to connect sexist with pick-up artistry. They arent really connected but people will think that. What are the definitions to you guys?

A player to me is someone who fucks a new girl every day - Im not a player by that standard definition. I picture them as outwardly SEXUAL and very fast. They seek women who enjoy that game and know the rules. Like in Swingers

A seducer chases innocent women like in Dangerous Liasons

A womanizer does it for the money (I could be wrong about my definitions, Im just writing my impression - which could be easily swayed by reply posts) like the guys in Dirty Rotten Scoundrals

A ladies-man? Rhett Butler

professional assholes are comedians

What are YOU? Out of this I hope to find a common ground of what is the best to be. I LOVE women. Womanizer? Me? I dont think so. Pick-up Artist connotates an art appreciation. I dont sleep with every girl I 'pick-up'. I just love the art of it. But I don't want to be known as a guy who 'picks up." To pick up something is easy. There it is, just pick it up. Im more of a treasure hunter. Sure. I was considering compiling my thoughts into a book called The Art of Attraction. Im maybe an attractionist or an attraction artist. Naw. How about a Lone Wolf. Naw, that seems too predatorial. I'm more into the Hunt. Im a hound and she's the fox. Ahh, so many metaphors. We need more to begin contemplating the similarities and the differences. I want to be able to tell someone what I am and have them not think Im a sexist pig. Because Im not. I guess you could call me a LOVER.

One guy here is a polisher. He picks up a rough girl who's been bashed around once too often and polishes her up. Me? That takes too long and you have to be a fucking psychiatrist for them. Naw, I prefer women who already have it together in their heads. Treasure hunter.

Some are agriculturalist womanizers. They find a girl who isnt ready and become friends with her til he's ripe. Ok, sure it can work, but while you are waiting ... : D